Inspired by the recent 'I knew my relationship was over when....' thread (link in first comment) I was hoping to put together a list of red - flag behaviours, words, traits etc. to look out for in potential partners, with the idea of having that resource to back up relationship talks with my kids (boy & girl) when they're older. They'll probably want to run a mile from such conversations but this is something I want to at least address with them. Y'know, be wary of someone who doesn't want you to hang out with your friends, don't get swept up by love bombing, that sort of thing. These are just two of the things I wish I'd been aware of before boarding the boyfriend train. If you were making such a list, what would you include?