My DP of six months is on dating apps. I know because a month or so ago I went to delete my accounts and he appeared at the top of the pile. We’ve been exclusive since February.
I asked him about it and he said he’d just forgotten and he wasn’t using them. I was quite relaxed about it and just said I had deleted mine and lightheartedly said it would be good if you deleted yours. Then we carried on pouring a drink and it was forgotten.
But I’m embarrassed to say I have since set up a new account and found him still on there. I swiped on him and he’s not swiped back so I assume he’s not using it. But it’s really pissed me off he’s still on there.
I don’t want to broach it and come across as jealous as I am not like that at all. I don’t really get jealous and I don’t want to go down that route. But however I say it in my head to him, it sounds possessive and jealous. But then again it’s also down right disrespectful to me to still be on it.
What would you do?!