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Do you secretly judge people who announce their pronouns in their emails?

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Mewmin · 22/04/2021 21:42

I was reading the thread on BBC pronouns earlier and it got me thinking about my own reaction when I come across people who I had previously respected and looked up to who have put their preferred pronouns in their email signature (all female with obviously female names like Annabelle and Rebecca).

Personally I believe it shows a lack of critical thinking and, working in the academic field, I am finding it very difficult not to alter my view of the (very) few colleagues and work contacts who have done this. In one case it has actually made me think twice about working more closely with someone.

Am I alone in this?

I should add that I am supportive of transpeople's rights but don't think that they should override women's rights and I cannot go along with the lack of logical thinking and tautological definitions used in gender ideology.

OP posts:
longwayoff · 30/04/2021 09:20

Happily, I have no idea what you mean. My working life is over so I have no plans to find out.

nickynackynoopants · 30/04/2021 12:55

@PromisingMiddleagedWoman
I work with someone who has
She/her
Or
They/them
on her email or is it their Grin

EmpressWitchDoesntBurn · 30/04/2021 14:15

If I had to give my pronouns it would be terribly tempting to put Ro/hyp/nol.

I’m not going to share the relevant link in case my post gets deleted but anyone wondering why my ‘pronouns are Rohypnol’ should try Googling.

GetupSeanItsDoleDay · 30/04/2021 21:07

Recently got an email of a member of the public signed off with:-

pronounce: he/him

Wasted 5 minutes of my life muttering he, him, he, him out loud thinking it was a game of Mad Gab.

JackieWeaversZoomAc · 30/04/2021 21:20

Yes I roll my eyes, and think a lot less of them.

JackieWeaversZoomAc · 30/04/2021 21:24

I'm practicing 2 responses in case I'm ever seriously asked for me pronouns:

1: He/him (I'm clearly female)
Or 2: I'm not ready to divulge such personal information.

Whichever seems best for the situation 😀

Alfaix · 30/04/2021 21:38

I would think anyone doing this was mad. Who does this in real life?Never come across it, except on Twitter.
I don’t need to be told what pronouns to use. She/ her for a woman and he/him for a man.
They/ them is plural.

Theythinkitsalloveritisnow · 30/04/2021 22:07

[quote nickynackynoopants]@PromisingMiddleagedWoman
I work with someone who has
She/her
Or
They/them
on her email or is it their Grin
[/quote]
I haven't come across this yet but I would have no problem always referring to them as they or them. It would brighten up the working day using it in meetings and conversation

I would also think they were a twat Grin

But work can be dull and some small amusements always help.

Some good ideas on the thread tho for how to deal with the pronouns madness if it infects where I work

Katypyee · 13/05/2021 17:35

I do not secretly judge. I openly thank them for doing it. Just added mine to Instagram. Well done IG!

Skinnytailedsquirrel · 13/05/2021 21:27

I judge them as wankers

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