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Bullying at work (Bizarre)

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GeorgieBourke · 22/04/2021 18:21

Hi
If possible can I ask for some advice, I am a senior manager in the NHS ask for about 6 months I have been informing my line manager my workload is excessive and that I am collapsing under the pressure, the work issue is the workload is excessive my manger tried to refer me to HR gaslighting me trying to make me believe I had a different problem (bizarre behaviour) I did tell him recently two of my work also thought I was being bullied, I did contact HR and asked HR to facilitate am meeting him, HR did nor respond, at our last 1-1 he told me I was a delinquent, and I was childish. I said I would not continue the conversation and I was terminating the meeting, Here is where the bizarreness starts, he has now emailed me coping in a director saying I have made extremely serious allegations and he will take this up with HR, there will now be a formal investigation into me for making serious allegations against him, in our 1-1'sI don't know what he say, the man tells have truths, lies and spin, and he is convincing, he is highly intelligent, please advice what I should do.

Yours
Georgie

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Hellocatshome · 22/04/2021 18:24

You have accused him of bullying and it is a serious allegation so that is true. As the allegation is against him he cant do anything but take it to HR who will investigate the claims.

sonjadog · 22/04/2021 18:44

You tell them your side of things when they ask. That is all you can do.

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