13 weeks confused?

[Lozzaa4]

Everywhere ive read and everyone is saying is should be able to feel my uterus and i should be sticking out above pubic bone but i cant see anything or se any difference, i just look fat like ive gained weight everything seems Normal nothings changed. Should i be worried about not seeing anything near pubic bone and not being able to feel uterus or any hard bits anywhere in my stomach, am not bloated or constipated either. Everywhere in my belly is soft and squidgy just like it usually would be not being pregnant. Am so worried. I havent got a midwife yet as im waitjng on first appointment as i only just found out im pregnant.

How do you know you are 13 weeks? Did you have a scan?

Yes i had a pelvic exam where they established i was pregant, then later on in the same day i had a ultrasound which shown i was 12 weeks + 1 day this was last week and im now currently 13 weeks today! Obviously because i didnt know i was pregnant and only found i was on the pelvic scan which i had booked fron doctors weeks before for other problems but then found out it was cause i was pregant, i had no symptoms all the way through thats how didnt know. Ive had back and pelvic pain im still currently waiting on a midwife appointment.

Oh! In that case I wouldn’t worry about not being able to feel your uterus. I think I tried to feel mine during my pregnancies but never did despite being very slim so no fat to cover it up! Relax and congratulations

Thats the scan i had last week. And oh really least im not the only one who cant feel it. Just everyone and everything ive read said you shoyld be able to feel uterus or see something near pubic bone or sticking out etc but theres literally just nothing apart from being a little bit chubby no bump yet etc. Ive not noticed any diffrence. Im like 5ft2 and 8 stone so thought i would of been able to feel or see something etc. And thank you😊just hope every thing goes well and everything is ok. I've had lower back pain snd pelvic cramps more back pain today though 😔 iv been so worried about missed miscarriage i dont even feel pregnant ive never had any symptoms all the way through either

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I didn't feel or look any different at 13 weeks pregnant. By 16 weeks I'd started to grow a bit around the middle and felt my baby move but not at three months.

Don't worry about it.

Lovely scan photo I mean! I think all women worry during pregnancy. Try not to, which is much easier says than done I know.

Thank you both 🙏😊

How did things go for you? 13+3 with back pain few cramps hip pain ect. See the baby earlier and they was okay but I'm still worried!