"Crunchymum
Such is the circle of life.
He was lucky to have lived a long, vibrant and privileged life. He was lucky to have had kids and grandchildren and great grandchildren, but like with anyone who is almost 100, I feel no great sadness or grief.
I hope the public are respectful but realistic."
GreenHairyThing
You may not mourn, which is understandable as you have no personal relationship. Those around him will and shouldn't need to feel like they are wrong for grieving because he lived a long life.
I saw this attititide time and again working in a care home and it's such a shame for the relatives who feel devastated to lose their constant, the one who was always there and who seemed eternal (logic doesn't come into it).
A loss is a loss, even if they're 100.""
Well said @GreenHairyThing. I find this casual dismissal of the death of older people very upsetting. You can still mourn the loss of someone you loved and valued even if they are elderly and their death was not unexpected.