Just that really - not entirely sure what to do, but need to vent somewhere. Have NC as previous posts have mentioned the area I live or personal details.
We moved into our home three years ago. The first year went perfectly. In February last year, we got a letter from the council saying someone had made a noise complaint. We're not especially noisy and only share a wall with one neighbour, who is lovely and would have spoken to me directly. On further digging it related to a one off, loud late night party and screaming arguments in our garden. As it happened, whoever had called it in mentioned a specific date. We were at a wedding 200 miles away.
In April we had another letter saying we were putting building waste in our recycling. We weren't. Waste inspector from the council came round and again no problem.
In July, someone called the family services team at the council and said DH was mistreating our 1 year old DD - again, named two times where he was screaming and swearing at her in the garden, she was dirty and crying. I had a call from them while I was at work. They didn't mention specific dates but "last week" - we were on holiday. We chatted for a bit, I offered for them to come and see DD if they wanted but they said it wasn't necessary and closed the file.
In October we were woken up at 7am by an ambulance. Someone had called to say our child was in urgent need of medical treatment (unspecified). She was perfectly well and fast asleep. We woke her up, paramedics looked her over, were happy that she was well and OK and left. They said they knew the call hadn't come from us and the age of the child didn't match DD's age.
Three hours later, the police turn up. They've been called because someone said we turned away an ambulance and our child was sick. They saw her, were happy, and left. They did say they might have to refer onto social services but it has been 6 months and nothing further has happened, so I assume they didn't.
Last week someone called the fire brigade while DH had lit our firepit in the back garden so we could sit outside while it was chilly.
I really, really don't know what to do. We have an inkling of who it might be but no actual evidence to do anything legally - at this point if we sent a harassment warning, they could counter with the fact we have no actual evidence. I don't think the police could or would do anything. It feels like we're being targeted in our own home and it's escalating, sending emergency services to our house over and over seems mad. I'm dreading every day at the moment in case yet another thing kicks off and I don't know how we stop it.