I'll try to be brief!
Long term relationship is going nowhere. I'm not happy and he doesn't want to change.
Not married, but joint tenants (50/50 split) for the last 7 years. He can't afford to live here on his own, or buy me out. I would prefer to sell the house anyway.
I'm a bit lost to know where to start and hoped you organised people might help me get my head around the best way to proceed.
Things to do:
- End the relationship properly.
- Clear out spare room and shed of junk, like old clothes, boxes, rubbish. Will probably get a waste removal company in to do that.
- Put the house on the market.
- Get advice about a fair financial split.
- House hunt for a new place. Rent? Buy?
If you were in this situation, where would you start?
Should I clear the junk and get financial advice BEFORE formally splitting up with him? Should I start with telling him it's over? Would it be easier/ faster to rent a place instead of looking to buy immediately?
Thanks.