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What buggers up your weight loss plans??

108 replies

partyatthepalace · 30/03/2021 21:27

I REALLY need to loose some weight. What’s happened before is I get going - all good - then I derail myself by making super shit decisions, like eating endless takeaways when I’m doing horrendous hours. This time, I am trying to think of the bumps I will hit in advance so I can plan for them - but I don’t think I’m even aware of the half of it, so I’d love to know what other people think knackers it for them - and maybe we can exchange learning points?!

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BoomTastic1 · 30/03/2021 21:32

Stress. Every time.
Not making a meal plan, not doing a food shop.
Probably being too restrictive, one planned treat is better than going off the plan.

wizzywig · 30/03/2021 21:33

Being bored of it being on my shoulders. I want to be looked after

CarnationCat · 30/03/2021 21:33

Stress
Loneliness
My period
Eating out
Spending time with family and friends

Lots of potential for derailing there Grin

LunaNorth · 30/03/2021 21:33

It was alcohol for me.

Knocked that on the head, and everything fell into place.

1lb off my target weight as of this morning!

Donatella · 30/03/2021 21:34

Tiredness usually, just feeling really tired and low and fed up, and trying to make myself feel better by eating junk.

MadMadMadamMim · 30/03/2021 21:34

The 'fuck it' gene does it for me.

That means once I've eaten, say, a biscuit I tend to think Fuck it. I've blown it for today, so I might as well enjoy myself.

Which means I then eat two packets of crisps, a jam sandwich, a Fry's chocolate cream, a large cake, a Greggs sausage roll and I make myself a chip butty. (On top of regular meals)

And it often takes me days/weeks to get back on the wagon again.

I'm currently trying to not eat after tea (6pm). That means that even if I'm hungry at this point I refuse to go get something - because I know the 'fuck it' gene will kick in if I do.

I'm on week one of this new regime, btw. So I don't know if it will work.

TheChild · 30/03/2021 21:34

Being stressed and feeling sad/angry. I have issues with emotional eating which trigger the strong urge to binge on crap junk food, which once I start doing I can't stop.

DuvetNPillow · 30/03/2021 21:35

Poor sleep. My period. Stress.

All set off my carbs and sugar cravings and wanting a quick ‘feel good’ hot or that sated full feeling. I’m trying to turn to protein instead and it does help (although I can’t claim complete perfection in staying away from bread and cake!).

DuvetNPillow · 30/03/2021 21:35

Feel good hit

TigerBeetle · 30/03/2021 21:35

Snacking. I'm pretty good at eating good healthy meals if only I could stop nibbling between meals.

Hoolihan · 30/03/2021 21:37

Fuck it button here too. And feeling hard done by. I cannot moderate at all, fasting is the only plan that works for me.

hopeishere · 30/03/2021 21:40

Food
Utter lack of will power
Believing I carry it well and actually look ok

NotATomato · 30/03/2021 21:42

Lack of time, alcohol, excuses. When I’m on it though, I am on it.

JamMakingWannaBe · 30/03/2021 21:42

Wine

and after drinking said wine - high calorie snacks.

Suzi888 · 30/03/2021 21:42

Will power! Oh and wine! Grin

DukeOfEarlGrey · 30/03/2021 21:42

Stress. And lockdowns.

WellTidy · 30/03/2021 21:43

Stress - makes me reach for sugar and carbs

DPIL giving us things that they’ve made liked iced buns - I have no willpower

Walking past Krispy Kreme and needing to go in for a chocolate dreamcake

Too many celebrations that are marked with cake or chocolates as a gift eg Valentine’s Day, Mother’s Day, Easter, family birthdays, anniversaries etc - I have no willpower and seemingly cannot say no

BarryTheChopper · 30/03/2021 21:43

@MadMadMadamMim I have a fuck it gene too, I call it unleashing the beast. I definitely have a tendency to be a bit all or nothing.

I usually find it easier not to avoid all my triggers completely, no crisps, no bread, definitely no biscuits, no sweets but chocolate is ok in moderation.

Alcohol isn’t a trigger for me and I lose weight fine while drinking as long as I factor it into my overall calories.

A realisation that this is a long term thing helps. I can never eat the way I would like to and that’s ok. Most people can’t. One meal won’t spoil my overall progress and I try never to let a bad day turn into a bad week.

passengers · 30/03/2021 21:45

alcohol. I just don't drink now.

Actualy · 30/03/2021 21:46

I become mean and triggers all past traumas

Hyppogriff · 30/03/2021 21:51

The fuck it gene definitely strong here too! Boozing and hangover eating. Eating the kids leftovers. Crisps. Trying to be too strict and short term-ist about it. Impatient for results.

CaptainCarp · 30/03/2021 21:51

Being lazy
Going food shopping lol

The worst thing about now living in a town is having a hundred takeaways to order from when I decide I'm too lazy to cook.

Which is linked to poor meal planning as well.

Trying not to go down the sweets / crisps / biscuit aisles in the supermarket.

Wearywithteens · 30/03/2021 21:54

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TaraR2020 · 30/03/2021 21:55

Pmt
Lack of sleep
Stress
Sadness
Boredom
Hunger / not always eating the right things to fuel body and mind
Lack of time

WeatherwaxLives · 30/03/2021 21:59

I definitely have the fuck it gene.

Added to medication that makes me crave CARBS! ALL THE CARBS! constantly, even if I'm actually uncomfortably full I still want to eat CrispsPastaCakeBreadMoreBreadOohToastAndSomeCakeAndABiscuitOrTwoOrAWholePackWhyNotNeverMindHaveSomeCrisps. It's like a constant monologue in my head muttering about bloody carbs.

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