I sent a relative birthday money this morning PayPal (approx 10am) and although I had PayPal confirmation via email the money has not gone from my account?
I can't ask relative as I don't want to spoil the surprise but it's usually fairly instant. I'm not sure what to do now 
How would you approach this...? Text relative and ask if they've received an email? They'd get email confirmation if it was in their account.
I can't understand why it's gone through but it hasn't.