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Anyone noticed family/friends more demanding this Easter?

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Pissedoffcat · 19/03/2021 03:50

I've been inundated with hints or requests for Easter.
I always do the children. And certain adults.

But it's all adults putting in requests now, too.

Lockdown Easter fever?

Normally, I'd not think too much about it. But we've been affected income wise and I get impression no one thinks about that, because I've never discussed it.

Our business, we will deal with it, is my approach.

But , suddenly, influx of hints, requests or just downright orders! Confused

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PurpleDaisies · 19/03/2021 08:47

Not even a little bit. No one has even mentioned Easter yet.

MyMajesty · 19/03/2021 08:52

Ask your sister why she's suddenly expecting you to buy her something and if she knows why other people are expecting this too.

Reply to them all "Looks great. I'd love one too."

Maybe it is lockdown and they just feel it's a light thing to say, to keep in contact, and they don't actually expect you to buy anything??

Hoppinggreen · 19/03/2021 08:53

@Pissedoffcat

All chocolate requests. From adults. That's why I am bemused.

And,yes,it means posting them.

I'm just not getting it.

Not one person I know has asked me for any Easter chocolate Must be your family OP

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MagicSummer · 19/03/2021 08:59

How strange to 'request' gifts from other people for Easter! We barely even acknowledge it - certainly can't be bothered with eggs or decorations. It's another ploy from shops and card companies to try to extract yet more money from people. Whoever had heard of an Easter tree 5 years ago??

MolyHolyGuacamole · 19/03/2021 09:02

It's just you. Don't do anything special on Easter. Don't know anyone who makes a thing of it either outside of enjoying the long weekend and Easter egg hunt for kids.

chatw00 · 19/03/2021 09:03

Weird. I just buy my own (sometimes more than one Grin)

Norwaydidnthappen · 19/03/2021 09:03

I’ve never bought an adult an Easter egg in my life and I haven’t received one since adulthood either so this is really weird.

Dee1975 · 19/03/2021 09:19

Never heard of this. Requests for Easter gifts?? Do they write a list?! Cadbury egg at the top followed by a fluffy bunny???!!! Seems weird!
I do buy nieces and nephews an Easter egg. But there is no expectation. And certainly ‘no requests’ ..??!!

Dashel · 19/03/2021 09:22

Easter egg for DH and I would only buy an egg for other adults if we were visiting them over Easter and it would be a cheapish one.

I would speak to your sister asking why everyone is now treating you as an online shop? Maybe you shared a post inadvertently or had your email hacked and people mistakenly think you have offered to send them out?

en0la · 19/03/2021 09:23

Somebody I vaguely know does Easter baskets for her children, two weeks time there will be an album of photos in FB of a house decorated indoors and out with Easter as the theme and multiple baskets full to the brim with stuff plus a stack of presents for each family member.

baroqueandblue · 19/03/2021 09:26

I read to the bottom of page 2 and could feel the life sapping out of me... is this a wind-up? who on earth buys other adults easter eggs, unless it's a significant other (and even then Confused)

and why would anyone over 12 ask for something for Easter?!

personally, I'm not sticking around for the punchline, but there must be one Hmm

FearlessSwiftie · 19/03/2021 09:28

Nope, I haven't noticed that but every family is different thus the traditions differ, too. We don't do big gifts, usually it's just chocolates or small bunny plushies for the kids, etc. I also make semi-educational Easter slideshow for my nephews with questions and answers and they have fun watching it. Nothing big, really.

millenialblush · 19/03/2021 09:29

Eh? Surely grown ups can afford their own easter eggs?

merryhouse · 19/03/2021 09:44

Just ignore them.

If they get to the point of asking actual questions, text back "lol no"

Ovine · 19/03/2021 09:46

@starrynight21

I have never had one single adult in my family, ask for anything for Easter . They are adults - why would they get anything ? I'm very puzzled.
This. I buy DS an egg and other years we’ve done an egg hunt in the garden. His grandparents also buy him an egg. I’ve never bought an Easter egg for anyone over the age of about 12.
RedGoldAndGreene · 19/03/2021 10:15

I only buy Easter eggs for my kids and myself. If I had a partner I'd buy for them but I would buy for other adults.

Pissedoffcat · 19/03/2021 13:57

Thanks for letting me know it's just weird! I thought so too, but felt need to check.
Most are expecting an online delivery by looks of it.
It has confused the hell out of me.
To answer some questions;

I am in UK - was just up early and thinking about it whilst looking at my phone.

No punchline! Just an odd situation. 🤔

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frazzledasarock · 19/03/2021 14:36

What are you going to do?

LemmysAceCard · 19/03/2021 14:51

How many people are expecting a delivery from you OP?

Pissedoffcat · 19/03/2021 15:21

I've had 5 'sets' of unexpected suggestions, links etc from adults. None of whom were going to get anything other than a card.
Sister has reminded me her partner only likes dark chocolate. So, she's expecting something for him too.
I've not even mentioned Easter! I am currently 'doing' Lent, so definitely not been talking about chocolate!

I don't even buy DH anything at Easter. 🤷

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Pissedoffcat · 19/03/2021 15:23

I can ignore a couple of requests, but a few are more difficult for various reasons.

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CoffeeBeansGalore · 19/03/2021 15:32

Can you do a stock reply of "Thank you for the link but as in previous years I am not buying adults anything for Easter. I will keep (company) in mind when it comes to Christmas/birthday"

Pissedoffcat · 19/03/2021 16:01

@CoffeeBeansGalore
That's great! Thank you!
Very useable!

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ememem84 · 19/03/2021 16:06

Dm has asked what we’re getting the dc for Easter which is odd as she never got dsis and I anything other than an egg.

But the dc are getting an egg. A book and a new outfit from their grandma. So her choice.

We usually just do Sunday lunch.

user1471538283 · 19/03/2021 16:13

I used to get DS an egg and a gift. We did an egg hunt one year. Nice big meal and that's it.

I still buy him an egg and I'd buy children something. If we are invited for lunch I'd take chocolates. But orders?!