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Could you kill someone?

229 replies

Mollyiere · 03/03/2021 22:23

I was just watching a programme where a man said something like "obviously we all the ability to kill inside us, it happens everyday". Hmm

Anyway - then I started wondering if I actually could do it. Could you?

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PurpleRainDancer · 04/03/2021 01:04

@Whyareblokesonhere

not without breaking my new years resolution, I've been doing so well to keep it this year as well
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saraclara · 04/03/2021 01:08

@WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll

As a 'twist' to this interesting (hopefully theoretical) thread, would anybody change their answer if they could be 100% certain that the law would never find out or be able to convict them - and/or nobody who knew you would ever find out?
I'd pay someone else to do it if I could guarantee I wouldn't be found out. Though I'd have to google how to take a contract out on someone.
Sobeyondthehills · 04/03/2021 01:48

As a 'twist' to this interesting (hopefully theoretical) thread, would anybody change their answer if they could be 100% certain that the law would never find out or be able to convict them - and/or nobody who knew you would ever find out?

There was a quote I read (its from an Agatha Christie) but its still rings true

"a lot of people are stupid. And stupid people get found out, whatever they do. But there are quite a number of people who aren't stupid, and one shudders to think of what they might accomplish unless they had very strongly rooted principles."

I would think that in alot of murder cases, the police get lucky as well. Its getting more difficult now. But I still think something like strangers on a train would work.

And to answer the question, yes I do think I could kill someone. I just haven't found the perfect way to dispose of the body

8090sTv · 04/03/2021 02:02

I don't think I could. I've been in 'fear' situations and I freeze or shout. I also just don't think it's a line I could cross.

LemonSwan · 04/03/2021 02:02

Ahh your a burglar chaser. Yeah your a killer. You just dont know it

Eekay · 04/03/2021 02:10

@Parkheadparadise I can truly empathise unfortunately Flowers

sneakysnoopysniper · 04/03/2021 02:29

I would kill in defence of myself, my property or someone I loved. There are people I would kill for revenge if I thought I could get away with it.

wellthatsunusual · 04/03/2021 02:38

I'm fairly sure I could to save my children. Although I'm not sure if I could manage it if it was to save myself. Hopefully I could. And hopefully I never have to find out.

I'd need a weapon though, there's no way I'd be physically capable otherwise.

Pixxie7 · 04/03/2021 02:42

I don’t think I could to be honest although I would like to think I would to protect my family.

picknmix1984 · 04/03/2021 02:45

To protect myself or my family yes. Probably a little too easily.

MrsDThomas · 04/03/2021 07:33

If the moment came and i had to defend myself/family, well yes.

There is one person DH and I would happily stick a knife in. He’s threatened me, dh and 2 of my kids. He’s on the too of my list.

But he’s got a dodgy ticker so i hope that gives up the ghost sooner rather than later.

BLTLover · 04/03/2021 07:35

To protect my son I would and in that case would feel no guilt

Carolina24 · 04/03/2021 07:43

I’d give it a bloody good go in defence of my baby, but otherwise I absolutely don’t think I would have it in me.

Bluntness100 · 04/03/2021 07:47

I don’t know. Not proactively, as in just killing someone. But I’d like to think if it was me or them, or my family or them, then I’d give it a good go. If someone hurt my daughter, then I’d not think twice.

But years ago a man followed me from the pub and grabbed me on the way home, he pinned me up against a fence in a isolated area, and started just slobbering all over me, kissing my mouth down to my breasts, and I froze in fear and kept saying “please don’t hurt me” . The shock and the fear of it, incapacitated me. It was increased because I’d heard his foot steps following me, so there was a lead up to it, where I was getting really scared and repeatedly looking behind me to see who it was.

And my reaction shocked me. I’d never have thought I’d have reacted like that, but I was so shocked and terrified when he threw me against the fence.

He ran off eventually but if it had gone further, I don’t know if my self preservation would have kicked in or not. You just don’t know how you’ll react in that situation. You really don’t.

justanotherneighinparadise · 04/03/2021 07:49

Fuck yes. If anyone threatened my kid’s life I’d kill them without hesitation.

SedentaryCat · 04/03/2021 07:55

Yes...I'd kill someone for what they did to my family. It's a good thing I am unlikely to ever see them.

OverTheRainbow88 · 04/03/2021 07:56

I don’t think I could, regardless of the situation.

I feel sad if I accidentally stand on a snail.

Eekay · 04/03/2021 08:00

@Bluntness100Flowers

harknesswitch · 04/03/2021 08:06

No I don't think I could. About 19 years ago my exdh started to get physically abusive and one night just seemed to snap. At one point he had his hands around my throat and pinned over the kitchen counter, I remember thinking he was actually going to kill me. I looked over to my left and the kettle was within reach, it was a big old metal thing and I remember thinking I could grab it and hit him over the head with it. I didn't, I thought about it but never did, I think part of me was worried about hurting him and also that I'd get in trouble Hmm it's odd what goes through your head.

Obviously I managed to phone the police and he was arrested, but up until that point I always thought if my life was in danger I could kill someone, I'm not so sure now.

butterfly990 · 04/03/2021 08:15

www.indiewire.com/2018/02/the-push-netflix-review-ending-derren-brown-twist-1201933412/

This shows how anyone could be pushed to go through with something they wouldn't ordinarily entertain.

bookworm100 · 04/03/2021 08:23

If I or someone I loved was being attacked, then yes, of course. Ultimately we're all just animals hardwired to protect ourselves and our loved ones.

Rubyupbeat · 04/03/2021 08:39

Like many others have said, in defence of your own child, yes, but in other circumstances and there are loads, you would never know until you are in that situation.

bookworm34 · 04/03/2021 08:40

I've come close to it once before luckily I will never see that person again.
But I wouldn't hesitate if it was to protect my family.

butterfly990 · 04/03/2021 08:48

@Bluntness100 that is truly horrifying situation to be in. Big hugs xx

frumpety · 04/03/2021 08:50

Accidentally ?, yes. On purpose, premeditated ? I would say no. In self defence of myself or others, probably, I would certainly be more comfortable inflicting lasting damage in that situation than death, but it depends how committed the other person was to killing me and others.

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