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ADs picnic in the park with Twinkle the Tortoise

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ISaySteadyOn · 22/02/2021 19:07

Thought it was my turn to start a thread.

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ISaySteadyOn · 26/02/2021 16:22

@DWPmisery1972

Sad and horrific stories about the war, I didn’t know this stuff, very interesting. There was an inpatient mental hospital near where I used to live and a lot of the ex patients have since been trying for years to sue the place for the way they were treated there.

It’s shocking but unsurprising how the ‘mask debate’ has shone a light back on a continuing societal problem with ableism- just goes to show even the most liberal types are actually quite unaware of how cruel they’re being when they shout ‘JUST WEAR A FUCKING MASK’ etc. They’ll claim they care about disabled people... until it ‘inconveniences’ them. Just shows we still have a long way to go.

I’m so sorry to hear about your wedding @TrustTheGeneGenie Sad I hope you find a venue that suits you and STBDH style, it must suck big time. If I was a millionaire I’d throw you a big AD wedding with all the trimmings SmileWink people would even be allowed to hug Shock Grin whatever happens I’m so glad you have each other and you love each other so much that you want it to be perfect, it’s so lovely. (I’m a soppy mare at heart!!!)

@Curlygirl06 this might be a stupid question but our mascot, will she grow bigger? Like one of those giant ones? Or will she stay wee for her whole life?

I read a really interesting book entitled When The Children Came Home. It was all about how the evacuation experience affected the children after the war. There was no political agenda. It just told what happened.

I wonder if books will be written about our children.

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DWPmisery1972 · 26/02/2021 17:22

@Curlygirl06 Shock that one is mahoosive!!!!!

10 inches, so she will be pretty big, wow! That’s so cute, having your tortoise on you while you watch tv, love that.

I can’t believe that biggun smiled as well, that’s incredible! Grin

@ISaySteadyOn I never thought of that. I guess the effect of lockdown/the pandemic/resulting poverty on children will make the history books eventually. Sad

Curlygirl06 · 26/02/2021 18:08

[quote DWPmisery1972]@Curlygirl06 Shock that one is mahoosive!!!!!

10 inches, so she will be pretty big, wow! That’s so cute, having your tortoise on you while you watch tv, love that.

I can’t believe that biggun smiled as well, that’s incredible! Grin

@ISaySteadyOn I never thought of that. I guess the effect of lockdown/the pandemic/resulting poverty on children will make the history books eventually. Sad[/quote]
I'm quite fond of tortoises, to be fair. Always wanted one when I was a kid but wasn't allowed.

SirSamuelVimes · 26/02/2021 18:17

DH and I are seriously considering a tortoise now, thanks to this thread! Grin

TheOrchidKiller · 26/02/2021 18:35

I bet a tortoise won't complain noisily if you're sitting on a chair other than the one it wants you to sit on. I've tried explaining it's the same lap & the chair doesn't make a difference, but the cat won't have it. We are having a stand-off (or "uncomfortable sit-down") as I type.

I drove past an advert for ASDA /George clothing today. It said something like, "Back to school. Who is more excited about it?" There is definitely excitement at work about it!

bakingcupcakes · 26/02/2021 18:46

Wow Curley that's a massive tortoise! I like the pics of Indie. She's very lovely.

I think I might have read 'when the children came home' at some point. I definitely think books will be written about this. I'm hoping DS won't really remember the negative bits. I definitely will.

My chair looks very clean with its (not shrunk) cushions back on. Looking forward to sitting on it now. I really want to do the sofa next but think I need to wait for better weather so it'll dry out easier.

MercyBooth · 26/02/2021 19:54

It’s shocking but unsurprising how the ‘mask debate’ has shone a light back on a continuing societal problem with ableism- just goes to show even the most liberal types are actually quite unaware of how cruel they’re being when they shout ‘JUST WEAR A FUCKING MASK’ etc. They’ll claim they care about disabled people... until it ‘inconveniences’ them. Just shows we still have a long way to go

There is a huge amount of people who are only interested in the vulnerable when they can use them to emotionally blackmail others. Which is what ive noticed.

They talk about long Covid Over There but the litmus test will be when the people suffering with it start applying for PIP. I wonder if so many will still believe the sufferers of long Covid then.

LivinLaVidaLoki · 26/02/2021 20:01

@MercyBooth

It’s shocking but unsurprising how the ‘mask debate’ has shone a light back on a continuing societal problem with ableism- just goes to show even the most liberal types are actually quite unaware of how cruel they’re being when they shout ‘JUST WEAR A FUCKING MASK’ etc. They’ll claim they care about disabled people... until it ‘inconveniences’ them. Just shows we still have a long way to go

There is a huge amount of people who are only interested in the vulnerable when they can use them to emotionally blackmail others. Which is what ive noticed.

They talk about long Covid Over There but the litmus test will be when the people suffering with it start applying for PIP. I wonder if so many will still believe the sufferers of long Covid then.

Absolutely this!
Curlygirl06 · 26/02/2021 20:30

@SirSamuelVimes

DH and I are seriously considering a tortoise now, thanks to this thread! Grin
If you need any advice let me know!
Curlygirl06 · 26/02/2021 20:34

@bakingcupcakes

Wow Curley that's a massive tortoise! I like the pics of Indie. She's very lovely.

I think I might have read 'when the children came home' at some point. I definitely think books will be written about this. I'm hoping DS won't really remember the negative bits. I definitely will.

My chair looks very clean with its (not shrunk) cushions back on. Looking forward to sitting on it now. I really want to do the sofa next but think I need to wait for better weather so it'll dry out easier.

Thank you. She won't eat carrot peelings here tho, little bugger! Apparently the breeder said that all his hatchlings are eating it but she won't touch it. Like kids, I'll keep trying her with it.
ISaySteadyOn · 26/02/2021 20:34

I've just been reading an old American play called Our Town by Thornton Wilder. I last read it in high school. It's entire third act is about the acceptance of mortality and the appreciation of however much time you've got. You'd never be allowed to stage it today.

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MrsDeaconClaybourne · 26/02/2021 20:36

@MercyBooth

It’s shocking but unsurprising how the ‘mask debate’ has shone a light back on a continuing societal problem with ableism- just goes to show even the most liberal types are actually quite unaware of how cruel they’re being when they shout ‘JUST WEAR A FUCKING MASK’ etc. They’ll claim they care about disabled people... until it ‘inconveniences’ them. Just shows we still have a long way to go

There is a huge amount of people who are only interested in the vulnerable when they can use them to emotionally blackmail others. Which is what ive noticed.

They talk about long Covid Over There but the litmus test will be when the people suffering with it start applying for PIP. I wonder if so many will still believe the sufferers of long Covid then.

Oh that is so true.
ISaySteadyOn · 26/02/2021 20:36

Aaargh, its not it's. Stupid autocorrect.

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wanderings · 26/02/2021 20:39

So, we have it on no less an authority than Her Majesty that it is our "duty" to be vaccinated. Thank you, ma'am, for clearing that up. I will gladly get mine tomorrow. How is it I go about doing so, when your prime minister has not yet offered it to me?

Incidentally, ma'am, why have you not ordered the execution of your prime minister, for his wholesale damage to our great country, in particular the destruction of our children's education and mental health?

DWPmisery1972 · 26/02/2021 21:12

Well said @MercyBooth. My other half claims PIP Because of PTSD, epilepsy and fibro, and he gets no end of shit from the DWP, the people who claim he’s a scammer (seeing your boyfriend fit during the night and not knowing what to do is the scariest thing but sureeeeee.). I totally agree with you; when bozzie shlongson raises taxes that affects the middle classes, not the real rich, we’ll see how liberal and pro equality act they are then. Hmm

DWPmisery1972 · 26/02/2021 21:15

@wanderings this whole queen thing has got me really anxious and a little bit angry tbh. I’m 26, I don’t know if I want to have the vaccine yet, I follow the rules (Hmm) and I really don’t like this pressure. It feels so suffocating and I hate it. I’m not anti vax (I was vaxxed as a kid and my kids are too, I’m not a loon or anything) but I just don’t really know if I want to do it for a few personal reasons and I don’t really think that I should be guilted by the fucking queen about it. Phew, glad I got that out.

wanderings · 26/02/2021 21:28

@DWPmisery1972 I'm not pleased about the Queen thing either. It's the next stage in the great "keep the plebs in line" plan: "look them in the eyes" and "keep to the rules to stop the spread" was so last month.

Here's one which would have me pilloried "over there", and even here, I hesitate to mention it. I do intend to have the vax when Saint Boris's merry men pull their finger out and offer it to the under 50's, but I'm now facing a bit of a moral dilemma regarding testing. I'm doing a job where regular testing is "voluntary, but strongly recommended". I really want to refuse testing as a matter of principle: not against my employer, but against the government. So far I have not taken a test once, and I spent a fair bit of time since March working as a key worker. I feel that by taking a test, I am supporting the government's oppressive regime, which I don't want to do; and if I test positive, perhaps falsely, everyone in my household would have to self-isolate; and I wouldn't be at all surprised if testing positive just once has long-term implications: not in health, but on paper, i.e. once a Covid, always a Covid. But perhaps I am being extremely selfish in thinking this, even by AD standards.

MrsDeaconClaybourne · 26/02/2021 21:38

[quote wanderings]@DWPmisery1972 I'm not pleased about the Queen thing either. It's the next stage in the great "keep the plebs in line" plan: "look them in the eyes" and "keep to the rules to stop the spread" was so last month.

Here's one which would have me pilloried "over there", and even here, I hesitate to mention it. I do intend to have the vax when Saint Boris's merry men pull their finger out and offer it to the under 50's, but I'm now facing a bit of a moral dilemma regarding testing. I'm doing a job where regular testing is "voluntary, but strongly recommended". I really want to refuse testing as a matter of principle: not against my employer, but against the government. So far I have not taken a test once, and I spent a fair bit of time since March working as a key worker. I feel that by taking a test, I am supporting the government's oppressive regime, which I don't want to do; and if I test positive, perhaps falsely, everyone in my household would have to self-isolate; and I wouldn't be at all surprised if testing positive just once has long-term implications: not in health, but on paper, i.e. once a Covid, always a Covid. But perhaps I am being extremely selfish in thinking this, even by AD standards.[/quote]
I completely understand and was going to ask what people are doing about older DC going back to school and testing.

I work in a school and am doing the 2x weekly testing. I really wanted to refuse on principle but didn't want to cause any problems in my school where SLT are lovely and supportive. I also want to do anything that helps schools be open and stay open and, on a personal level, quite like the reassurance (possibly false I realise) as I work quite closely with pupils. I hate the precedent though of testing for anything in order to be able to go to work. It's certainly a tricky one.

TheOrchidKiller · 26/02/2021 22:28

The tests aren't compulsory, & children can't be excluded if you or they withold consent, according to our school.

I think there is an element of performance safety about the tests, to get schools to reopen ASAP.

DS is almost 18 & will soon be able to consent to all sorts. We talked about it & he wants to do them, so it's his decision.

Taswama · 26/02/2021 23:00

DS1 has been at school since Jan as he is autistic. He has been very clear from the beginning that he does not consent to tests. His headteacher didn't quite understand the concept of voluntary early on but seems to have understood now.

Mrsfrumble · 26/02/2021 23:07

It’s shocking but unsurprising how the ‘mask debate’ has shone a light back on a continuing societal problem with ableism- just goes to show even the most liberal types are actually quite unaware of how cruel they’re being when they shout ‘JUST WEAR A FUCKING MASK’ etc. They’ll claim they care about disabled people... until it ‘inconveniences’ them. Just shows we still have a long way to go

Yep. It was shocking, the casual ease with which some posters could just proclaim “well they’ll have to stay at home then” when told that others were not able to wear a mask. It made me think of an item I heard pre-Covid on Radio 4, on the weekday evening show they have about disability (sorry, can’t remember what it’s called), about how it used to be legal and commonplace to exclude people with mobility issues and visual impairments from theatres and concert halls on the basis that they’d get in the way and slow others down in the event of an emergency evacuation. The presenter talked about how great it was that we’d moved past such attitudes, but I’m not sure that we have really.

AcornAutumn · 26/02/2021 23:12

@ISaySteadyOn

I've just been reading an old American play called Our Town by Thornton Wilder. I last read it in high school. It's entire third act is about the acceptance of mortality and the appreciation of however much time you've got. You'd never be allowed to stage it today.
That sounds interesting.

Nice weather means the outside drinkers are back. I completely understand it but cannot wait for the pubs to be open indoors, otherwise the streets are going to be grim at the times I'd be heading back from a walk.

The Queen thing is depressing but I am resigned to it all now.

MercyBooth · 26/02/2021 23:20

Im not having the vax until they sort out whats going on at EON.

From their fb today.

From EONs fb page.
Jo Jo
WORST ENERGY COMPANY EVER!!!!!!!!!! 😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡 left my disabled friend with no gas and electric for 5 days, swore at me on the phone and hung up and now refusing to answer my inboxes

MercyBooth · 26/02/2021 23:35

Sorry but ive had it. More blaming of the public in todays press conference when they know damn well that its not spreading because someone met up in a park for a coffee. If EON are allowed to continue with that kind of behaviour we are going to end up with other infections

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