Can I just scream for a moment? Abusive exh related.

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He has decided that now CMS has finally caught up with him, he's no longer going to pay the mortgage. Not even half. I haven't been contacted by CMS, so I have no idea how much money is even coming in.

I knew he would do this. I expected it. Money is the only way he can even try to have an iota of control over me.

I'm still sick of the game-playing and the sheer selfishness of him.

Oh, and today his response to being told our child is due to have surgery imminently is "thanks for the update"

Whyyyyy did I even give this arsehole the time of day, let alone marry and breed with him, I don't know.

Are you divorced? Does your financial agreement mandate him to contribute to the mortgage on top of CMS? Does he still jointly own the house?