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I am just finding myself just wanting to tell people to fuck off

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JackieweaverhasALLtheauthority · 09/02/2021 21:42

I don't ...obviously but in my head...." just fuck off"

For reasons that may have just made me roll my eyes normally

I am so fucking NARKY.

Is it just me or is everybody on the verge of stabbing people?

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GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 10/02/2021 02:45

I’m constantly telling nearly every chirpy/cosy/oh-so-sincere voice on radio ads to fuck OFF! The alternative is of course switching off, which I also do, but then often forget to switch on again so telling them all to fuck off is easier, not to mention relieving my feelings.

This is in the privacy of home or car (no dcs to corrupt) so no need to keep my voice down, either.

Ilovemycat13 · 10/02/2021 03:06

Mouthing fuck off under a mask is super easy...and very cathartic 😏

CoffeeAndEnnui · 10/02/2021 11:55

@indemMUND, thank you for sharing the (jolly sensible) good word! The last time I had to call upon Rammstein was when we moved house during the heavy November snows of 2010. And thought we could manage to shift the majority of the 'household stuff' ourselves. Three weeks from my due date.

So many hours craaaawling between the properties with an overfilled car. So much passive-aggressive muttering. SO much Rammstein.

mnahmnah · 10/02/2021 12:13

I’m slightly less standby today. Hope you all are too Grin

mnahmnah · 10/02/2021 12:13

*stabby!!

midlifecrash · 10/02/2021 12:52

just came on to recommend Nobody by Tony Basil and Glackapella by Ceelo Green...

megletthesecond · 10/02/2021 12:55

I've been like this for years since menopause started. I need to write to my local councillors about something but I'm too angry to be polite at the moment.
I call it my Falling Down phase.

Squirrel26 · 10/02/2021 13:02

Good God yes I hate everyone and everything. I particularly hate BBC fucking Breakfast and their inane perkiness, yet I still for some reason put it on EVERY MORNING and it then sets me up for another day of being pissed off by the whole world.

I deal with it by messaging various friends pictures of things on the internet that have really wound me up, with a long rant underneath. They’ve probably all either blocked me or decided that I’m dangerous and need humouring.

BobbinThreadbare123 · 10/02/2021 13:02

I've long been a massive Rammstein fan. It helps. See also Megadeth, hed PE and System of a Down.
I've taken to listening to it very loudly after work, most days. I've also taken to muttering darkly behind my mask while I'm going round the supermarket on my solo trip out each week.

Squirrel26 · 10/02/2021 13:03

I’ve also started loudly shouting ‘oh fuck of’ at things on the car radio when I’m driving. Blush

Foxyloxy1plus1 · 10/02/2021 13:34

I told the person from Microsoft (not) to fuck off yesterday. Blocking the numbers is quite satisfying.

iwannascream · 10/02/2021 13:50

I am at work and have this on at the minute and am dancing in the kitchen out of sight as today is a bad day for my work colleagues....they have all managed to piss me off !!!!

music.youtube.com/watch?v=VgfDM5197V4

mnahmnah · 10/02/2021 14:33

@Squirrel26

Oh yes! Me too. And at the Tv.

MaudesMum · 10/02/2021 14:45

I get my daily fuck offs in whenever those TV Covid ads starting "look them in the eyes " come on. Or Michael Gove, in any media.

mum2jakie · 10/02/2021 20:23

Yeah the "Look in my eyes" ads infuriate me too! Yes, I'm following the rules hence why I'm stuck at bloody home watching your manipulative bloody ads and haven't got Covid so don't try and make me feel responsible you cocks!!!

BarryTheChopper · 10/02/2021 20:32

This thread has been cathartic, I am so pissed off with everything right now!

I’m an arsehole, I admit it. I cannot keep a civil tongue in my head, everyone is avoiding me and I need a slap.

If I may just list my whinges then I’ll feel better.

I am peri menopausal. I can’t take HRT because even after a hysterectomy I have deep infiltrating endometriosis wrapped around my bowel and oestrogen is like Kryptonite. The black mist of rage is getting me.

DD is failing college badly. I don’t know what to do with her and there seems to be no help available anywhere. Every word that comes out of her mouth is a lie. I spend all day chasing her to get things done and it’s all for nothing. She’s throwing everything away.

DH is fucking useless. He has zero concept of mental load and is a total passenger. We have had serious words, let’s see how long it lasts this time.

I did a 50 minute HIIT class tonight. I worked extra hard to get rid of some rage and not only was the instructor so OTT it was like working out with Timmy fucking Mallet, it was EMOM which I hate, she kept calling me out for my high heart rate and telling me to do the easy option. No.

I badly want my Mum and she’s 300 miles away.

It’s Wednesday and I’m on the gin and intend to stay there.

JackieweaverhasALLtheauthority · 10/02/2021 21:35

The look me in the eyes adverts make me incandescent with rage.

I am keyworker in a role which means reasonably close contact with no ppe. I test twice a week. Stop trying to make me feel guilty for going to bloody sainsbury's

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NorbertMeubles · 10/02/2021 21:39

I've become an under the mask swearer and find myself mouthing the words fuck off under my mask all the time as people are so annoying. Especially in Morrisons. And the Co op, oh and Sainsburys.

grapewine · 10/02/2021 21:42

I've definitely been like this for the last couple of years - 2020 did not help matters. Once I hit 40, I was out of fucks to give about a lot of things.

grapewine · 10/02/2021 21:44

I've become an under the mask swearer and find myself mouthing the words fuck off under my mask all the time as people are so annoying.

Same. I'm over people. Especially because I can't see the few humans I really like.

GellerYeller · 10/02/2021 21:50

Can I add Lily Allen's infernally chirpy 'F You' to the playlist as that's pretty much my internal monologue when I have to interact with other people lately.
Oh and My Chemical Romance screaming 'I'm not O Fing K'.

Disclaimer: I am far too old to know anything about these people. God bless Spotify.

GellerYeller · 10/02/2021 21:53

@iwannascream oops missed your earlier post! Blush

LookItsMeAgain · 10/02/2021 21:59

I'm finding that it's my colleagues who are also working remotely from their homes are setting me off at the moment.
I am working in a very small team of people and with the best will in the world, their grasp of the day to say tasks is really frustrating. I had to train one of them in during a lockdown so we've never worked 'together' in an office setting, only remotely. This person that I trained in is now driving me twisty asking "Can I do this?" and "Can I do that?" and they are giving out incorrect information about operational things happening in the business at the moment, but that is because the information they are giving out is out of date and they haven't checked for any new information. Another member is the team leader and is suggesting that my colleague contact a third team (who have nothing to do with anything at all of our job or tasks and can give no information possible on the matter that is at hand) because the team leader hasn't taken a hands on approach to understanding what it is that we do in the team.
It is so frustrating.
I have asked on occasion for guidance or help from the team leader and to be honest, I might as well have been asking the wall. It's not because I didn't like the answer I got, it was more that the answer I got was in the format of "Have you asked X team member about this as they may have information that is of use to you?". I know that X Team member has no information that is relevant to what it was I was looking for guidance or help on.
I sense a red mist on my horizon and I don't want to lose the plot with these people. They're my colleagues.

Curlygirl06 · 10/02/2021 22:03

@7Days

God, sorry, I am one of those mince ditherers from the supermarket. It's like being a time traveller from Victorian times seeing a supermarket for the first time - it just strikes me as being so odd Not that I'm.at home slaughtering my own meat since lockdown
Mince ditherers- fab expression which I shall work into conversations tomorrow. I work in a supermarket and by christ we've got plenty of them.
user1471538283 · 10/02/2021 22:05

Sometimes people are lucky I dont go absolutely bloody mad at them. I've never suffered fools but my god, this pandemic and people make me so angry.

All that be kind, there wasnt alot of that my way. Lots of us are working long hours through a pandemic so the very least others could do is keep out of our way with their noise, whining, selfishness and entitlement.