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Mates Rates?

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lilsquish · 31/01/2021 11:25

hello, looking for some advice on how to navigate this dilema.....

so a good friend is selling me an item cheaper than others.

Id enquired about the cost before agreeing purchase and she repd that they are £1800 but for me it will be £1300.

now i feel a bit awkward, should i pay the £1300, £1800 or something inbetween.

I kinda wish she had just said its £1300 and i wouldnt have known others were paying more, but maybe she was worried that cost would be discussed and others would find out.....

what would everyone do?

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SpongeBobJudgeyPants · 31/01/2021 11:28

She's offered it to you for 1300, I would take it that she's just saying she's giving you mates rates, unless she has form for passive-agressive non communication of what she actually wants? So, 1300 is my vote.

SpongeBobJudgeyPants · 31/01/2021 11:29

Trys to work out what it is....puppy/kitten?

lilsquish · 31/01/2021 11:35

Definitely not at all passive aggressive, i think its probably just worry that the other customers would find out.

Im just in a dilema because £500 is a lot of money and a big discount. Just feel kinda awkward about it all

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lilsquish · 31/01/2021 11:35

@SpongeBobJudgeyPants

Trys to work out what it is....puppy/kitten?
Grin
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WorraLiberty · 31/01/2021 11:37

If your friend is happy to sell it at that price, just buy it at that price.

Lotsalotsagiggles · 31/01/2021 11:59

Buy at that price and give bottle of wine or beers too as a thank you

Or something cute like homemade brownies

lilsquish · 31/01/2021 12:04

@Lotsalotsagiggles

Buy at that price and give bottle of wine or beers too as a thank you

Or something cute like homemade brownies

oh i like that idea!
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justchecking1 · 31/01/2021 13:32

If she's a good friend pay the £1300.

If she's more of an acquaintance, I'd be uncomfortable with that. I'd be worried I'd always "owe" her something, where as I'd be fairly sure that wouldn't happen with a good friend.

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