My sister having a baby and I lost mine

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NC. I’m a bit of a mess. I’m much older than her too (she’s 28, I’m 38) so I feel mix of happy, sad, a whole host. And I hate myself for feeling this way. I’ve since broke up with my partner too so this is not an easy time for me.

Will this be ok? Will it feel differently soon. I’m not ok.

Be kind to yourself. Allow yourself to feel the feelings.

It will be ok. The new baby is a person and will bring healing love with it. Life is not fair but it will be ok.

I just don’t know how I will deal with this, family gatherings etc. How will it be ok. Will I be able to be there without getting upset? Will it feel differently soon?

You can be sad for you and happy for her at the same time.

I’m really sorry this has happened to you