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Possibly cheating- what would you do?

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skyeblack · 16/01/2021 22:52

I've just joined tinder and upon having a quick swipe through I've spotted my friends ex bf. They broke up about 2 years ago after a long relationship where it turned out he'd been cheating on her regularly.

He's now with a new girl, who I don't know, but I know they've had a baby together a few months ago. I feel awful for her and feel like sending her screenshots of his profile!

Am I crazy to get involved considering I don't know her? Or is it the right thing to do?

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Teardrop2021 · 16/01/2021 22:53

If you do, do it anonymously.

WilsonMilson · 16/01/2021 22:58

Don’t do it, unless you thrive on drama..it’s really none of your business and you don’t even know the woman or what the situation is.

NewMum2021x · 16/01/2021 22:59

Depends when the account was last active and if they have recent photos as if you don't delete your account it will still show on tinder

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imsureineverdo · 16/01/2021 23:00

Yes you are crazy to get involved.

BettyAndVeronica · 16/01/2021 23:00

Second the advice to do it anonymously. If you do it at all. Messenger gets shot.

I have let someone know their BF was cheating before. She took him back but now both of them don't speak to me and it's made group social occasions a pain in the butt, but that's a whole other tread...

MegaClutterSlut · 16/01/2021 23:57

As others said, do it anonymously. I would want to know

NeverHadANickname · 17/01/2021 00:01

Definitely let her know. I'd send screenshots anonymously if possible.

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