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What do you silently judge people for?

999 replies

Shandan35 · 15/01/2021 15:42

I would say
Talking on public transport , wish they would be quiet.

OP posts:
AiryFairyMum · 15/01/2021 17:00

Grey crushed velvet sofas/carpets

EmilyG1989 · 15/01/2021 17:01

@NobodyPuttsBabyinCorner agree with all but I am partial to a bit of love island Grin haha don't judge me!!!

Iknowwhatudidlastsummer · 15/01/2021 17:01

lack of manners

People who stay in pjs all day

People who boast and are proud of being disorganised/messy/dirty

Heatherjayne1972 · 15/01/2021 17:01

The sahm who couldnt possibly floss her teeth at all ever as her kids had violin on Wednesday
My eyes nearly rolled to the back of my head ( I have 2 jobs three kids and no husband or violins - I seem to find the 5 mins it takes)

Other than that anti vaccine people and conspiracy theorists ...

Robbybobtail · 15/01/2021 17:01

I must say I silently judged hot tubs until we were given one as a gift by the IL’s - it kept the dc’s quiet all through the first lockdown!

PrincessBuggerPants · 15/01/2021 17:01

People being dull enough to have two children, very close together. On purpose.

Age limitations not withstanding.

Luckyelephant1 · 15/01/2021 17:02

Anyone with a Michael Kors handbag

FangsForTheMemory · 15/01/2021 17:02

Everything. I’m judging you right now, OP, for starting a miserable negative thread.

EmilyG1989 · 15/01/2021 17:02

@BewareTheBeardedDragon 'how to make you feel good about yourself' thread haha

Swingometer · 15/01/2021 17:02

Lip fillers
Men with enormous beer guts
Anyone who overshares on Facebook
People who watch all the TV soaps

Iknowwhatudidlastsummer · 15/01/2021 17:02

Parents who decide to have kids they cannot afford

Parents who decide to have kids but cannot be bothered to look after or spend time with them

CF who benefit from the time and effort of others but wouldn't dream of giving even 1 hour of their time

borntohula · 15/01/2021 17:03

Stupid signs in houses like 'live, love, laugh' and 'bathe' in the bathroom, etc.

AiryFairyMum · 15/01/2021 17:03

People who write "step foot" when they mean "set foot".

Sunshinedrops85 · 15/01/2021 17:03

Taking drugs and smoking whilst pregnant.
Smacking/shouting at little kids.

Iknowwhatudidlastsummer · 15/01/2021 17:03

Parents who put a tv in their child's bedroom

It's bad enough when they are teenagers, but a child? I do judge.

nbee84 · 15/01/2021 17:04

Definitely a silent judgement as I know there could be many reasons - people with fat children (not just a bit of chub but properly overweight)

Twillow · 15/01/2021 17:05

@NobodyPuttsBabyinCorner
What's wrong with gin drinkers?
Do you mean swigging it from the bottle? If so I agree, otherwise it's a perfectly nice drink.
What do you drink?

LH1987 · 15/01/2021 17:05

@ChocOrange1

People who put their children in nursery full time from a very young age Sad
Oh no really? I have to go back to work full time in April when she will only be ten months. This has really made me cry. I think I need to quit Mumsnet for a while.I already know I’m not good enough.
EmilyG1989 · 15/01/2021 17:05

@LadyOfTheFlowers yes!! and he's, so many say his!! Angry haha

JoeNotExotic · 15/01/2021 17:05

Older women wearing mini skirts
People who smoke
Animals sleeping on beds

Yep, true bitch here

Iknowwhatudidlastsummer · 15/01/2021 17:05

@PrincessBuggerPants

People being dull enough to have two children, very close together. On purpose.

Age limitations not withstanding.

Why? I found it so much easier when they are close in age than when there is a large gap. You are free to disagree, but I don't get what's to judge?
thefirstmrsrochester · 15/01/2021 17:05

Absolutely anything which the owner takes to FB to broadcast about possessing/acquiring. Especially if it’s a white Range Rover or a Dubai holiday.

IggyAce · 15/01/2021 17:05

Smoking while pregnant or pushing a pram blowing smoke all over the poor baby.
Age 3+ walking round with a dummy.

AreyouseriousClark · 15/01/2021 17:06

@Icanseegreenshoots

Holiday kids clubs, particularly parents that use them every day, whilst all the other children are having fun in the pool and on the beach with their families. It makes me feel very sad and upset for them.

Holidays should be remembered by children for being fun, feeling loved and the happiest of times not spent with strangers that have not been vetted properly.

I do agree some what, especially regarding vetting. Bit I have one Dc who asks to go the clubs.
AiryFairyMum · 15/01/2021 17:06

Kitchen islands and bar stools.

Oh, and 'upcycling' where they paint antique wood furniture and make it look cheap. Particularly with decoupage. Good luck scraping that off one day.