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What do you silently judge people for?

999 replies

Shandan35 · 15/01/2021 15:42

I would say
Talking on public transport , wish they would be quiet.

OP posts:
seensome · 15/01/2021 19:38

Mums on the school run wearing scruffy old/holey clothes, have a bit of personal pride.

A bit of primark is ok but not Everything you wear, definitely not select or peacocks!

Grandparents doing all the childcare

Thick very fake looking lashes as everyday wear, it's nasty.

Men that vape, I wouldn't date them.

GabsAlot · 15/01/2021 19:38

oh i forgot people who post on fb bad day or i dont believe it or some nonsense

then in the comments whats up are you ok etc

the reply-i dont want to talk about it

fuck off posting then attention seeker

Hugoslavia · 15/01/2021 19:39

Parents not watching their children (usually whilst chatting), oblivious to the fact that their children are out of sight and causing havoc.

Thefirsttime · 15/01/2021 19:40

@ginghamstarfish

Let's face it, don't we all silently judge others?
No, I think some people judge others non silently!
RosaBaby2 · 15/01/2021 19:40

Crumblecrumble1990

They are not good for the development of little toes, not just snow suits but anything with feet attached, best to use footless clothes with separate booties etc

Also most people will have that on top of a vest, outfit etc and the baby can overheat Smile

RosesAndHellebores · 15/01/2021 19:40

Having reflected I think cunty fuckers receive my judgement but Atrocious Cunts have my admiration.

Where did they all go?

CanICelebrate · 15/01/2021 19:40

@mumnowformerrockstar

You judge babies and toddlers in nursery - how the fuck are are parents supposed to work?

WankmasterBastardDeLaShithead · 15/01/2021 19:41

Pronouncing "mischievous" as "mischievEEous"".

RosaBaby2 · 15/01/2021 19:41

@Iknowwhatudidlastsummer

What's wrong with snowsuits in baby carriers?

I am guessing that absolutely nothing when you are outdoors, but when you know you are going to be in and out of shops etc all day, they are not suitable.

Yes there's overheating but also they can pull on toes because of the position baby is 'sitting' in Smile
Hugoslavia · 15/01/2021 19:43

Lip filler and trout pouts.

CosyAcorn · 15/01/2021 19:45

People who shout at their kids - don't mind a shouted 'no!' when a kid is about to hurt themselves/break something but shouting at them in anger or speaking harshly to them/insulting them, really brings out my inner judge

People who openly voted Tory and also act shocked/outrage at the decline in the NHS and police forces around us.

Fake nails - but my only 'judgement' is that I judge the nails to look tacky. It doesn't reveal anything else about them.

Body building competitions- known a few friends get involved . They all suffered from eating disorders beforehand. It's the same mental health issue in different packaging but people give you medals for it.

RosesAndHellebores · 15/01/2021 19:45

SIL1 - not always as silently as I should Grin.
Never done a full week's work and neither has her dp. Her DC are unboundaried, her house is dirty, at one with Dylan from the Magic Roundabout. And it would all be sort of fine if she didn't constantly whinge about skint and having called DH a capitalist bastard and warned me against marrying him I find it a little cheeky that she regularly taps him up for a grand or three and he gives it to her

Ellapaella · 15/01/2021 19:45

Spelling 'Lose' as 'Loose'

DownstairsMixUp · 15/01/2021 19:47

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This has been withdrawn by MNHQ at the poster's request.

Iknowwhatudidlastsummer · 15/01/2021 19:47

A bit of primark is ok but not Everything you wear

I could be wearing Primark exclusively for an entire week, you wouldn't even notice.

Janegrey333 · 15/01/2021 19:47

@WorraLiberty

Poor spelling and/or grammar

All joking aside, I really hope that's ^^ a joke @NavyFlask

Why? It’s perfectly valid.
StCharlotte · 15/01/2021 19:47

Women who are in no position to bring up children going ahead with unplanned pregnancies.

It's pretty much the only thing I judge and given I'm talking about several members of my own family, it's definitely silent Grin

Sparrowfeeder · 15/01/2021 19:48

The people giving their kids solely crisps and redbull for lunch, dirty faces and raggy clothes (beyond a normal scruffy kid) who are obviously uncared for, not supported or loved, not given boundaries, not supported to learn and basically treated like a neglected pet, sworn at for being normal kids, that kind of thing. Basically neglect. I’ve seen them in the council estate in which my mum lived and I have seen the same thing in expensive areas I have lived in too. Neglect. It sadly is too common.

MrsBobDylan · 15/01/2021 19:49

People who have no idea that it was largely the privilege of having well-off parents, a good home in a nice area near outstanding schools, whose parents could afford tutoring and extra curricular activities and didn't grow up with the despair that lack of money and debt brings, who think their good fortune is because 'they worked hard for their money'.

Sparrowfeeder · 15/01/2021 19:49

Sorry that was @AliceMcK

Gwenhwyfar · 15/01/2021 19:49

@Twillow

People who eat while shopping. It's so uncouth.
What do you mean? If someone's out for 2 or 3 hours they're not allowed to eat? Or do you disagree with any eating in public not at a table?
Heatherjayne1972 · 15/01/2021 19:50

@BewareTheBeardedDragon
I’m a hygienist
I’ve heard every excuse you can think of as to why someone can’t floss
That one was a doozy

MrsBobDylan · 15/01/2021 19:50

Which I'm assuming fits most of those on here who have expressed such unpleasant views of their fellow human beings.

Swingsandroindabouts · 15/01/2021 19:51

@Santaiscovidfree Kids sitting in trolleys? What do you mean, supermarket trolleys? My toddler Dd goes in one 🤷🏻‍♀️

AmoElCafe · 15/01/2021 19:51

@seensome

Mums on the school run wearing scruffy old/holey clothes, have a bit of personal pride.

A bit of primark is ok but not Everything you wear, definitely not select or peacocks!

Grandparents doing all the childcare

Thick very fake looking lashes as everyday wear, it's nasty.

Men that vape, I wouldn't date them.

How would you even know if everything someone wore was from primark? They have a lot of stock, you can’t possibly know everything they sell.
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