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Bfp today but I've got period cramps

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Vinceypie · 13/01/2021 10:44

Hi ladies!

I need some advise. I am over joyed to have got my first ever BFP today. I've been ttc for almost a year now. Anyhoo... today would be the day I'm expecting AF. I've got really bad period cramps and im so nervous.... is this normal or am I about to have an early loss???? Praying for some reassurance.

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SmidgenofaPigeon · 13/01/2021 11:03

I’m on the same boat OP, a lovely strong BFP on Monday which I was overjoyed about after a miscarriage back in august. I’ve had cramps, twinges, sharp pains in my ovaries, and a general ache in the whole area. It’s so worrying isn’t it. But apparently, it is completely normal and down to a big surge of progesterone and your uterus stretching around already🙏🏻 Doesn't stop my anxiety completely but from what I’ve read it’s not something to worry about.

Hopefully someone comes along with some more reassurance for us soon!!

Vinceypie · 13/01/2021 11:13

Yes its such a worry! I'm definitely an anxious person anyways about this sort of thing and im not surprised you are extra nervous seeing as you had a miscarriage... So sorry to hear that! Let's pray everything goes smoothly this time around for you!!! I too had lots of sharp twinges and have also been having awful palpitations on and off all day,every day since around 5/6dpo. If my anxiety stays at this level... its going to be a very long 9 months. I'm sure it'll settle down. I'll probably book myself an early scan around 7/8 weeks to check all is ok and to calm myself.

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Howmanysleepsnow · 13/01/2021 11:20

I have 4 dc. The only first trimester symptom I ever had was period type cramping/ twinges for 1-4 weeks. The first 2 pregnancies I delayed testing as I was sure my period was about to start but, no, it’s a common pregnancy symptom!
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myotherusernameisonholiday · 13/01/2021 11:22

I had this with DC1, I didn't test until 3 days late because I was so convinced my period was starting to the point where I kept visiting the toilet to check until I was 3 days late when I thought maybe I should test. I was told the same as PP that it is everything stretching around. Congratulations!

SmidgenofaPigeon · 13/01/2021 11:35

Thanks OP! Yes it’s a super anxious time and has probably sucked some of the joy out experiencing a pregnancy when you’ve gone through something horrible the first time, but I’m taking it day by day and really hoping I can start to feel calmer about it over the next few weeks. Like you I’ll probably book in with a private scan at 8/9 weeks (which still feels like forever away!) for reassurance and also so DH can see because they still won’t let partners into scans in my local trust.

mindutopia · 13/01/2021 11:37

It can definitely be very normal. I definitely had cramps with all of mine.

6demandingchildren · 13/01/2021 12:28

As my user name suggests I have 6 children, my last one I was around 4 months when I found out as I kept putting off testing as I was sure I was about to have my period due to all the pains I was getting.
He is my miricle baby

GirlCalledJames · 13/01/2021 12:31

I had loads of cramps and twinges in the first weeks. There’s a lot going on down there.

Scaredykittycat · 13/01/2021 12:39

I had the worst cramps of my life when I was pregnant. Like I was sick with the pain. It would wake me up. They settled at about 7/8 weeks.

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