I need some advice/help...I have had a new boyfriend for a month, me and him have had sex and I enjoy it but there’s been two occasions where I’ve asked him to stop due to it hurting me (he has a large penis) or me just generally wanting to stop but he’s not listened and he’s kept going. The first occasion I remember agreeing to have sex with him and we were both enjoying it but then it started to become painful for me and the pleasure disappeared so I asked him to stop but he kept going...I continued to ask him to stop a numerous amount of times even saying please as if I was begging him yet he kept going and told me to handle it and to just let him finish so he can cum I then just gave in and remember lying there staring at the tv feeling helpless while he was on top of me pleasuring himself but for me the pleasure had turned into pain I wasn’t moaning or enjoying it I just wanted him to stop. The second occasion once again I told him to stop as I was starting to find the sex uncomfortable and yet again he didn’t stop he just told me to handle it I kept telling him to stop but he wouldn’t in the end I bursted into tears as I was in pain and upset that he wasn’t stopping at this point he stopped but he didn’t comfort me or ask if I was ok he just simply rolled over to the other side of the bed and went to sleep as if he had the jump with me this made me feel guilty for not letting him finish. From what I’m saying he probably sounds horrible but he really is an amazing guy he treats me and my 6month old daughter like princesses I couldn’t ask for anything more and we do have good sex it’s just when I tell him to stop he dosent listen I’m not sure what to do or how to act about it I love having sex but it’s come to the point that i sometimes turn down having sex with him because I’m scared that if I tell him to stop he won’t and he’ll keep going. Any advice or simply someone who can just listen to my story and give me a bit of comfort would be much appreciated.