That is all really 
DH just took an interest in what I was doing on my phone for first time in 14 years and of course on the app you have the button 'I'm on' which would be the first place he'd go (if I hadn't totally unsuspiciously walked away quickly). Managed to hide a few that he'd probably be interested in. Yes I know I should talk to him about relationship issues but I'd rather come on here and get (usually fantastically good) advice from 100s of strangers.
I've named changed a few times too but that doesn't matter on the app it will show you everything.