Christmas 2017 DP's mum who was in Orlando developed a life threatening chest infection - he was gone to sit at her bedside.
Christmas 2018 his mum still in Orlando died on 21/12 he flew out to make initial arrangements was due back on 24/12 flight went technical he eventually reached Iceland at 11pm 24/12 with no flights out till Boxing Day.
Christmas 2019 DP having chemo for lymphoma and another family death.
This year I am on call vet and phone system lost all it's programming overnight so unable to forward calls to my mobile. Telecoms engineer is not answering his phone so for three hours I have been sat alone in the practice in case the phone rings. Waiting for the on call engineer to answer his phone, the service desk ladies are calling him every 3 minutes he so far as over 60 missed calls from them - you might think he would notice.