Anyone ever had a problem with their dh snapping at them ?

[Lardlizard]

And if so how did you resolve it ? I’ve done all the obvious stuff like say don’t snap at me like that, then it turned into a big row

On the rare occasions DH snaps at me, I look him in the eye and say levelly 'I think you will want to rethink that remark when you recover your temper.'

@Muckish

On the rare occasions DH snaps at me, I look him in the eye and say levelly 'I think you will want to rethink that remark when you recover your temper.'

God you're good.

if I said that he would just reply what what
I’m not doing anything. !!! But I will try it word for word

He’s gone off in a strop this am

I think me and DP snap but it's very rare and about even. I think we tend to let it go with the snapper ideally self identifying as unreasonable. If it's just him snapping at you it's not really on is it. What was the scenario?