Looking for yourself first in photos

[Aldilogue]

Does anyone else do this?
Soon as there is a group photo, I automatically critique myself and I think surely I don’t look like that.
I’m not bad looking, I do alright, my husband thinks I’m beautiful but as I get older I’m surprised I don’t look like I think I do.
Does that make sense?

Yes, I do the same.

I hate having my photo taken, I always look awful, although apparently I don't look awful in real life

I always think I look completely different and out of place in photos, and that everyone else blends in lovely.