Yes, don’t do it is my advice. Our cat’s behaviour was so bad at one point we almost split up, as I couldn’t cope with him (I’m not joking). To summarise:
-Constant urination and defecation on beds and sofas
-Can open windows and doors so frequently “escapes” and has to be “rescued” from the top of sheds, under cars, trees etc often at night and in terrible weather as he becomes aggressive and is literally paralysed by fear.
- “Breaks” into the bedroom just to piss on our bed
-At times non-stop “screaming” to be let outside/for us to turn the tap on/attention/god knows what
-Can turn taps on, almost flooded the bathroom
- Aggressive with our other cat at times
- Very sensitive to any changes, even him just seeing another cat outside the house is enough to set him off, which then triggers the above behaviours
- At times very demanding of affection and attention, will jump on our bedroom door handle during the night repeatedly while screaming to try and get into the room waking us up
-Refuses to drink out of bowl, will only drink fresh water from a tap
-Patrols the house every evening, meaning he constantly comes in and out of the living room and god forbid we close the door to keep the room warm and he can’t get in. This cues him screaming and jumping on the handle until I open the door for the fifth time that hour
I am a cat lover, have always had cats, but I have had a really really hard time living with him for the past five years. We’ve had to change so much of our behaviour to suit him it’s unreal. He’s my fiancée’s baby and she’s very attached to him, luckily we’ve learnt to live with most of his bad traits and have been able to prevent the soiling of our bed and sofa for a while now by installing locks on the doors and making sure he’s never alone near them, but honestly, it’s no way to live and really not worth it, he’s cost us thousands in new furniture as cat urine is virtually impossible to get out and at one point he was doing it almost every day as he didn’t like our new house (we think).
I work with a woman who has a Bengal and her cat is pretty much the same, so it’s not just ours that has problems. We spent a lot of time trying to understand why he does what he does and found his behaviour is very common in bengals.