Why can't I find it!?

[Pers]

I know I'm not supposed to make a thread about another thread, but I'm looking for one (the one about how women all end up buying gifts and remembering birthdays) I can't for the life of me, find it.

Any tips for searching Mumsnet posts more effectively?

Try searching for "wifework" ?

Tried that, it's killing me! I'm having an argument with someone who thinks that women like doing all the gift giving and organising because women are more generous in nature... wanted to prove him wrong!