Don't do it. Any recognisation you deserve in your role will be overshadowed, and put you both in a shit position.
My DH and I worked in the same industry (I'm self employed), he worked in a large government organisation, and was the person my biggest client reported into. Paths never crossed when he was in 'work mode' but we met at the many, many functions - he was always guest of honour lol.
Within our sector, he was quite well known, and I was a young female, doing well in a male dominated industry, so fairly memorable - sad as that is.
We kept our relationship secret for YEARS, and my business grew naturally with no input from him, as we were miles apart in what we actually DID - think me running Chelsea football club, and him being in charge of SKY Sports (although clearly not that!)! I diversified into sectors within our industry that he had no link to, and as my business built, we felt confident to 'come out' and ultimately got married.
LOADS of people made snidey remarks about me sleeping my way to the top. People who knew me, how I worked and had even worked with me felt able to accuse me of using him to build a career, when in truth, he utilised my contacts and knowledge of the wider industry (and still does!)
It got so bad, I eventually left the sector, moving into a completely different area of work. I passed clients onto a partner agency (another young woman, who nobody saw fault with 🙄). One of the biggest mistakes I ever made, and I have now gone back, but at the time I couldn't deal with the whispers and accusations. Now I just embrace it and wait for the whisperers to need the answer to a question, which they inevitably do. They always go to him, and he just directs them to me lol.
Also very awkward when he was a twat to anyone, which unfortunately was par for the course occasional in his role. Not him personally, but the job he had to do. Made it v tricky for me to then go in and do my (much more positive) job.