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I torn during childbirth 8 months ago, intimacy still hurts?

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alesha123445 · 06/11/2020 22:27

Hi, i gave birth 8m 3w ago and it still hurts to be intimate. Is there something wrong?
I torn the bottom part of the labia minora and some inside. It looks normal but when me and my partner have sex and theres pressure on that part, it hurts. Is it normal for it to still hurt after nearly 9 months?

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Skysblue · 06/11/2020 23:32

Yes if sex hurts something is wrong. Ask a female GP (male GPs are so dismissive) for help.

Good luck OP xx

HoldMyLobster · 07/11/2020 02:33

You may need a Fenton's procedure. Definitely talk to your GP and don't let them fob you off.

DramaAlpaca · 07/11/2020 02:35

It shouldn't hurt. See your GP Flowers

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Whatelsecouldibecalled · 07/11/2020 04:08

You may get better help with a women’s physio. It shouldn’t hurt at this stage. I had a nasty 3rd degree tear 7 months again and a decent amount of internal damage. Sex doesn’t hurt now.

I hope you find a solution

Whatelsecouldibecalled · 07/11/2020 04:09

Also you have probably tried this but lots of lube and different positions may help but please still seek support

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