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I stole somebody else's baby

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LiveLoveWoof · 05/11/2020 10:51

Name changed as outing.

This was yesterday. In supermarket with DD 3 year old DS and 14 week DD. DH had the pushchair & I had the trolley. We were in a bit of a rush so DH said he'd go get a few bits and we'd meet in the middle. Off he goes and takes the pushchair with him. DS stayed with me. Had a quick look at the baby clothes for DD. Left trolley at end of aisle. Wandered up another couple of aisles then turned round and automatically put my hands on the pushchair that was there. Started walking off and DS pipes up "that's not my sister" I looked down and realised DD was now wearing boys clothes and had aged by about 6 months. I panicked and returned baby to the aisle I stole him from. Thankfully I'd only got to the end of the aisle and turned to go into the next aisle before DS said something. The other mum never even noticed!

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Shinyletsbebadguys · 06/11/2020 10:44

@Banooshka

Hardbackwriter you're not funny. It was a reply to a poster justifying mistakes to sleep deprivation to me.

Scatteredmama Grin

You've misunderstood, I was not justifying anything to you. Justifying implies a level of defence , I'm not interested in defending .I answered a question , I simply explained cause.

Believe me I never ever feel the need to justify myself or anyone else to anyone who takes the opportunity to make judgemental comments. I don't think highly enough of them for that.

52andblue · 06/11/2020 11:07

1st baby. IVF and crash c sec birth with SCBU etc.
On first night on ward nurse took him away so I could sleep.
I had a nightmare, woke and went looking for him.
4 babies lined up in cots in nurses station.
I went to the wrong cot.
Nurse laughed at me but not kindly.
Never forgot it.

Never forgot / mixed up either child again but it is SO easily done.

Scoleah · 06/11/2020 11:35

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WeirdlyOdd · 06/11/2020 11:48

Slightly different, but I think DH was in 'parent' mode and so didn't think.

He, the children and a random woman reached a very flooded road, which you couldn't easily cross. He picked up the DC and transported them over, then scooped up this poor woman and carried her over too, without asking.

LindaEllen · 06/11/2020 11:49

I did smile at the story, but flipping heck, why are you going to the supermarket as a family of 4 during lockdown? For goodness sake.

Pollaidh · 06/11/2020 11:57

I once told my 50 year old boss to "wait for the green man", in a very mummyish tone.

LiveLoveWoof · 06/11/2020 11:58

@LindaEllen

I did smile at the story, but flipping heck, why are you going to the supermarket as a family of 4 during lockdown? For goodness sake.
It was wednesday, before lockdown.
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Trailing1 · 06/11/2020 12:05

Oh god some of these have got me howling in what was otherwise a shitty week, (self isolating).
Keep them coming!

Iwantacookie · 06/11/2020 12:30

I nearly GAVE ds1 away once. We were in asda in merry Hill he was about 4 playing up something rotten so I told him if he didnt behave I would get the lady from the naughty boys home to come pick him up.
Women next to me pipes up oh I'm from the naughty boys home would you like me to take him. I said to ds1 off you go and he walked up to her took her hand and started walking away. We both found it hilarious but it did make ds1 behave for the rest of the shopping trip Grin
I forgot ds2 first time I did the school run on my own with them. I was very impressed with myself getting 2 primary aged children and a 2 week old baby up fed dressed and out the door on time. Locked the door and said I feel like I'm forgetting something. Dd reminds me of her baby brother who was other side of the door in his pram that we would of walked past to get outside.Confused

IFwithloadsofchocolate · 06/11/2020 12:33

My ds once got in the car in front of me at school pick up. I saw him get him, the lady look around and then ds jump out in horror. I laughed so hard.

I miss sweaty sticky little paws.*

I love my ds2's clammy fat little sticky hands.

SeasonallySnowyPeasant · 06/11/2020 13:00

I left baby DS on the kerb in his car seat and drove off once. Luckily I realised almost straight away and did a quick U-turn! I'd had to put some bags in the boot and had forgotten about him.

My grear-grandma left my dad in his pram outside the post office (60's) and caught the bus home to the next village. Oops. He was fine.

sashh · 06/11/2020 13:08

Iwantacookie

My mum opened the door one evening to a lady with a collection box. She said, "I'm collecting for the national children's home'.

My mum grabbed me and my brother, pushed us out the dor and said, "here you go".

The collecting woman was not pleased.

LizaE · 06/11/2020 13:10

Ah, that's the modern world of convenience for you.

In my young days babies were found underneath a gooseberry bush, now you can get one in the produce aisle at your local Tesco

😂😂😂

Another here parked outside a shop at a few weeks old. My mum was practically home before she remembered and ran back.

I also remember getting lost when I must have been about 3 or 4? My mum walked off thinking I was with her but I was messing about. I was taken up to the security guards station and they put a tannoy message out.

I also remember when I was little we were told to find a mum for help if we were lost or when out when a bit older and needed help. You couldn't do that nowadays in most city centres 😮

OooErrThor · 06/11/2020 13:21

@tmh88 that has made me laugh so much, I love it Grin

iwantmyownicecreamvan · 06/11/2020 13:33

Don't you find, despite the judgmental comments of some posters, that this thread is somewhat reassuring? It's hardwired into us to look out for small children - I know we make the mistake and think they're ours for a split second, but a little one reaches up or reaches for your hand or whatever and it is our instinct to react in this way.

That's my take on it anyway.

TheSunIsStillShining · 06/11/2020 13:35

"I also remember when I was little we were told to find a mum for help if we were lost or when out when a bit older and needed help. You couldn't do that nowadays in most city centres 😮"

In the 70s/80s we were told to come home for dinner/before nightfall. That's it. Parents had only a vague idea of what their kids were up to. I find it said that the world has changed so much that our kids are way more confined.

On a funny note though. When ds was about 4. I was picking him up in kindergarden (peak time, changing room full) and he was fussing with getting dresses, lost my temper and told him that he will get a slap in the face (in native language doesn't contain the word face or any other body part). And my son screamingly jumped on the benches
"Mummy, can I have it now!?!" with a beaming face.

Half the room burst out in laughter, other half hang their heads in shame.

Never left said kid anywhere by accident, but i did have a tendency of putting things on the car top before getting in. I drove kms with 2 cans of beer once. A lad at the red light pointed it out

And I also almost got jailed for sheer stupidity. Had a generic car, dime a dozen. 2x years ago, so manual lock. But the lock was a bit iffy and you had to force it a bit, especially in minus conditions.

Went to a city center xmas fair. Bought millions of small things. Got to my car -or so I thought- put many bags down and just wanted to get home. Lock was acting up, and I got pissed on garage not having a time for me sooner. So I forced it open. Only to find that it was not my car.
Called the police, waited for the owner, paid for everything. Thank god the guy was nice and didn't press charges, but it was touch and go for a bit.

My mum had a habit of getting into other ppls cars. We once had a sports car that is very uncommon in europe. Even the color was not the most common (metallic sunburn-ish). My mum still managed to get into a sedan renault megane by mistake. I will never understand this! :)

ChocolateCherrybomb · 06/11/2020 13:38

When I was 14, my brother and his wife had a little girl.

I used to visit them often. One afternoon, my SIL suggested I take the baby for a stroll and I could get some snacks, pop and a video from the local corner shop (boy, that shows my age).

There am I, walking down the road, the proud beaming auntie. Get to the shop, park the pram in front of the videos, get some goodies and pick a film, pay and walk back to brother's house. I was just about to walk in their front door when I realised I was missing a little something. I have never run as fast in all my life, before or since, as I did to get back to that shop. Thankfully, niece was still asleep, safe, by the video rental display and SIL didn't find out.

ArabellaScott · 06/11/2020 13:40

In the 70s/80s we were told to come home for dinner/before nightfall

My son has done this since he was 8. Mind you, we do make sure he takes a phone so we can track him/call him. And we live in a pretty safe, sleepy little town. But he goes out with his pals up in the local forest/park/streets.

TheSunIsStillShining · 06/11/2020 13:55

@ArabellaScott

In the 70s/80s we were told to come home for dinner/before nightfall

My son has done this since he was 8. Mind you, we do make sure he takes a phone so we can track him/call him. And we live in a pretty safe, sleepy little town. But he goes out with his pals up in the local forest/park/streets.

Try doing this in inner london :( I'd love to live in a place where this was still the norm....
fashu · 06/11/2020 14:52

When my son was born I gave him to the midwife on the ward so I could get at least an hours sleep!
Went in for induction 8am on 17th and this was 3am on 19th and I still hadn't slept. He was crying and I could feel my eyes closing whilst I was carrying him. I called the bell and she took him away. I woke up like where is my baby!!! I couldn't remember giving him to her! The ward was pitch black and I was just about to get up and she came back saying there was an emergency and she had to give him back but he was finally asleep! I'll never forget the panic when I thought he had gone missing a few hours old!

likethatbutcat · 06/11/2020 14:55

Back in the 60s my mum used to work in Woolworths. It was quite a grand building with a big sweeping staircase but no lift.

A lady had left her baby in the pram at the bottom of the stairs and was gone some time. The baby woke up and started to cry so my mum went over and picked the baby up and gave it a cuddle (prams were more like big crates on wheels in those days - no five point straps or whatever) The lady looked over the balcony and saw my mum with the baby and got the store to call the police. She had a lot of explaining to do!

Lizadork · 06/11/2020 15:17

@iwantmyownicecreamvan

Don't you find, despite the judgmental comments of some posters, that this thread is somewhat reassuring? It's hardwired into us to look out for small children - I know we make the mistake and think they're ours for a split second, but a little one reaches up or reaches for your hand or whatever and it is our instinct to react in this way.

That's my take on it anyway.

That is a sweet way of looking at it x
iwantmyownicecreamvan · 06/11/2020 16:17

Thank you Lizadork! Smile

likethatbutcat · 06/11/2020 16:30

We lost my nephew in a busy park once. He was about 2. There was a huge event on and the place was packed with families. After a lot of frantic searching we decided to go to the police station. As we were leaving the park we saw him trotting along with another family, holding the mum's hand and enjoying an ice cream. He waved happily at his Dad who said "Brian (not real name) we've been looking for you everywhere" obviously we thanked the mum profusely. She looked a little puzzled by the Brian reference as my nephew had told her that his name was Sally. We don't know anyone called Sally but had been reading Spot books to "Brian" .

LiveLoveWoof · 06/11/2020 16:44

@likethatbutcat

We lost my nephew in a busy park once. He was about 2. There was a huge event on and the place was packed with families. After a lot of frantic searching we decided to go to the police station. As we were leaving the park we saw him trotting along with another family, holding the mum's hand and enjoying an ice cream. He waved happily at his Dad who said "Brian (not real name) we've been looking for you everywhere" obviously we thanked the mum profusely. She looked a little puzzled by the Brian reference as my nephew had told her that his name was Sally. We don't know anyone called Sally but had been reading Spot books to "Brian" .
That is a bit scary. Surely the lady should have been trying to find you and not buying him ice cream! If there was an event on then there would be security etc and someone would likely have a tannoy.
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