Head or heart? relationship advice needed?

[SingleJam1990]

Hi I’m in need of some relationship advice, so for about 1 -2 months I’ve been chatting and getting to know two men, the first I’ve met 4 times, sexual attraction is extreme and the banter we have makes me laugh smile and flirt and makes my body tingle, however this man doesn’t express how he feels, sometimes he acts cold and it makes me anxious, I feel there may be others and sometimes has even rejected dates with poor excuses, however i fancy the pants off him, the second guy I’ve met about 6 times, we have some banter but nowhere near as good as man number one, however he always compliments me tells me how much he’s happy he’s met me and brings me little gifts and makes all the time in the world for me but the sexual attraction is not there but I trust him completely, so basically I’m stuck between following my gut and going with man number one and could end up single if he doesn’t want to settle or anything serious or man number two who will be willing to commit and hoping the attraction grows?

I'd get rid of both of them, honestly. Neither one is the man for you.

Number 2 is a definite no unfortunately. No spark. You cannot force it if it's not there.
Number 1 sounds attractive but a knob. If you can enjoy some no strings fun and then walk away do that, but that's most likely to end in tears.
Probably better off binning both.

Neither are right. I'd just have to some fun with bloke number 1 and accept that's all it's going to be. It's pointless continuing with bloke 2. If there's no sexual attraction now imagine in 18 months time?!

You seem to have narrowed down your field to these two guys when actually there's a whole load more out there to date

Carry on seeing them both