But writing about potentially having a son, she said: "I've known far too many white men who move through the world unaware of their privilege, and I've been traumatised by many of my experiences with them.
"And boys too; it's shocking to realise how early young boys gain a sense of entitlement - to girls' bodies and to the world in general. I'm not scared of raising a 'bad guy', as many of the men I've known who abuse their power do so unintentionally.
"But I'm terrified of inadvertently cultivating the carelessness and the lack of awareness that are so convenient for men. It feels much more daunting to create an understanding of privilege in a child than to teach simple black-and-white morality.
Those two positions (that boys are brought up with an entitlement mentality, due to sex and the status of that sex, and that women are at risk from that entitlement and social conditioning, on the one hand, and that gender is innate/nobody can know theirs until adulthood/transwomen are the most vulnerable and abused and marginalised group and need to be allowed all access to all areas of women's provision the very second they assert that their gender is that of a woman and their male bodies an irrelevance, on the other) are diametrically opposed.
This is what happens when people uncritically swallow a set of faith beliefs, and don't actually think about them properly.