Is the grass ever greener?

[wishthiswasreallife]

I have a previous ex on My mind,haven't been together for 10 plus years but i feel like he was the one and he's gone and I'll never get that chance again.We split up because I left,he was terrible for cheating,staying out,etc but for some reason the last few weeks he has been on my mind constantly it's torture actually!

Do you think you get one "the one" in your life and that's it?I feel like Iv had my chance and won't get it again.Is there hope for me?have you found your one after you thought you already had that chance before?give me hope 😭

He cheated on you, therefore he's not the one.

What @tectonicplates said. He can be the funniest most attractive bloke in the world but if he makes you feel shit he is definitely not the ‘one’

He wasn't the one, he was just another dick

Oh dear me. He would have been a terrible ‘the one’. I’d consider your leaving to be the smartest move you made where he’s concerned.