Miscarriage can anybody help me please?

[SleepDeprived2018]

Hi
Supposed to be just over 9 weeks pregnant - i just paid for a private scan they said baby must of stopped growing around 6 weeks (6wks4) they didnt tell me what to do or who to call next. Can anybody help please? They just rushed us out for the next couple. Ive had no pain no bleeding still having normal symptoms. Dont know what i do next. Cant breathe for crying.

[MelMcGuckin]

@ SleepDeprived2018

You are at the right stage for them to hear the heartbeat if it’s there sweetie. It’s so hard I know. Ours was horrible, - when you go to the scan - they’ll be really nice and they’ll give you options of what to do next.

It’ll take ages to get over it but it will ease I promise you. When I had mine I cried to the point where I couldn’t breathe and I used to do it downstairs when my husband was asleep cuz I felt like such a failure as a woman - but believe me don’t do this - it doesn’t help at all.

Also after the scan - if it is the worse - go to your doctors and ask to go and talk to someone - it helps so much.

Plus that clinic you went to should have told you what to do. Keep strong sweetie- you’ll get there

[showmethegin]

I mean this kindly but please read the whole thread, especially when it's as sensitive as this.

[showmethegin]

And I'm also sorry for your loss

[showmethegin]

I didn't mean that red cheeks emoji, sorry!!