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LO 12 month almost no eye contact

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OSC20 · 13/09/2020 20:11

Hi all.
I’m looking to hear about some of your experiences regarding diagnosis for concerns we have around my LO.
Our primary concern is that my LO who is now 12.5 months old, almost never makes eye contact. He’ll give ‘fleeting’ eye contact if playing games like Peekaboo or we’re playing high energy games with him, but at all other times he’ll actively look everywhere but our eyes.
We are also concerned about some delays in his social and communication development, like lack mimicking, gesturing, pointing, and saying nothing more than ‘arghhhhhhhhhh’. However this has ‘very slightly’ improved in the last few days, although he’s still not really mimicking other than blowing raspberries. Our LO still continues to show a lack of willingness to socially interact with us or other people, preferring to run around like a headless chicken to explore.
To be clear, it’s not the fact he runs around and he doesn’t have time to give eye contact. Even when he’s tired or calm, he still doesn’t give eye contact more than fleetingly.
Doing a lot of research, clearing we are thinking our LO is showing some very big red flags for autism spectrum disorder. We have a home visit soon to check his development focusing on these areas of concern.
So to the question - has anyone else’s LO showed these symptoms and either improved to a point this wasn’t an issue or been diagnosed with anything other than autism?
Thanks for your input in advance.

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ChazsBrilliantAttitude · 13/09/2020 20:29

Just to rule out the obvious. Do you think his eyesight is OK? Can he reach for objects etc. We failed to notice how bad DS2 eyesight was until he was about 3 (longsight and needed one eye patched).

OSC20 · 13/09/2020 20:52

Thanks Chazs.
His eye sight is definitely ok. He notices small objects, reaching for them as well as things far away.

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Joanne9090 · 03/03/2021 13:54

Hi, just reading your post when i was looking for advice and this sounds so much like my son. Hes 1 year old. Just wondering if you would mind letting me know how hes getting on now? Did he improve, have you had any input from doctors? Thanks very much xx

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