My eight month old could happily take a spoon from you and feed himself with it (twisting it around etc obviously) but would get most of the food into his mouth
Recently he's been refusing to do it himself and just cries and has a little paddy if you try to get him to do it, instead wanting to be spoon fed by us
I'm not sure if he's worked out it's quicker this way (he loves his food and can't get it in his mouth quick enough) or whether it's a regression/loss of a skill
He's also started intermittently refusing spoon fed meals so I was also wondering if it's more about wanting finger food but then if he wanted to feed himself surely he would spoon feed himself like he had been?