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Just got called a cunt by a 10 year old. How's your Friday?

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EllisRoses · 28/08/2020 14:38

Group of 10-12 year olds in the play park singing along to Cardi B "bring a mop and a bucket for my wet ass pussy" on repeat, throwing rubbish everywhere and kicking balls towards my toddlers head. I told them this isn't the place and to go play elsewhere if they're going to kick balls around. They all laughed and turned the music up and continued kicking ball around and singing about pussies, before asking me what I was looking at and to fuck off. I said I'm looking at a bunch of children who despite trying to act cool and grown up, still hang out in a play park, which says it all really. The youngest of the group called me an 'old cunt'. I'm 25 Grin

How's your Friday going?

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MrsS92 · 28/08/2020 18:54

We live in what would be described as a middle class area.
We have been forced to move due to antisocial behaviour from teens, it’s been awful. Unfortunately their parents are even worse!

rosegoldwatcher · 28/08/2020 18:57

Thank you for this thread.
It is a great reminder of (one of the reasons) why I opted to retire from teaching 3 years early!

HopeClearwater · 28/08/2020 18:57

@haveagoodyear I don't feel so terrible that my 4 year old says "fuck" once in a blue moon

Well, you should.

feelingverylazytoday · 28/08/2020 18:57

@ekidmxcl

Ironically of course, on MN, it is advocated to send out 10-12yos (and a lot younger) to play and gain independence alone. Guess what. IRL you do that and bad decisions (as described in the OP) result.
Kids always used to play out without this sort of bad behaviour.
popcornlover · 28/08/2020 18:59

I’ve never come across such kids to be honest.
But who is raising these nasty children? There seems to be an awful lot of them around going by five pages of comments here. Maybe people should stop breeding so much as it doesn’t seem to be very successful.

Thisismytimetoshine · 28/08/2020 19:01

@haveagoodyear I don't feel so terrible that my 4 year old says "fuck" once in a blue moon
Why do you feel this is ok because other kids are worse?! A 4 year old Hmm

queueueue · 28/08/2020 19:03

The world's going to hell in a handbasket!!

Cattermole · 28/08/2020 19:04

One of the great life lessons we've set ourself to teaching the Junior Engineer is the ability to rage correctly.
You should have the ability to swear, but the choice not to. (IMO.)

lalalalaloo · 28/08/2020 19:05

@Carpathian2

I haven't been directly called a cunt, but a house I visited ( for work) recently had a 5 year old with his own phone. He picked it up and said "what cunt is texting me now?"

I nearly fell off the chair with shock, but the parents thought it was funny.

I despair 😩

Jesus.
Candyflosscookie · 28/08/2020 19:06

Middle class is no guarantee of good behaviour. Mid teen Kid on my street, to read his mother's Facebook the sun shines out of his arse. Every birthday, Christmas, holiday, every time he farts she's waxing lyrically about what a decent, kind, caring, thoughtful young man he is. Truth is that he and his chums roam the village, being quite aggressive on their bikes, loudly discussing girls and using cunt/whore/gag the bitch etc liberally, try to nick stuff from the Coop, dodging traffic and generally being utter pains in the arse. She hasn't a clue.

sqirrelfriends · 28/08/2020 19:08

We have a pack of kids like these around here. They ride around on electric scooters, playing chicken with cars and almost hitting pedestrians at 30mph. They've also been known to stay out way too late and have caused a few fires in the local woodland.

If anyone dares confront them they're subjected to a tirade of abuse. The parents are aware, as are social services but they don't care. The kids are annoying but honestly I just feel sorry for them, what kind of future is waiting?

ChiaraRimini · 28/08/2020 19:11

It's not new, so don't pretend it is. My DB learnt the F word on his first day at school, in 1980, in a "naice" area. He and his mates were a right bunch of little sh1ts.

singersarp · 28/08/2020 19:14

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anon5000 · 28/08/2020 19:16

@mrsBtheparker

Next time, of there is one, reply 'That's no way to talk about your mother', one thing that scrotes like this hate is reference to their female breeder.
You call women 'female breeders' and wonder why some kids have a bad attitude?
FlamingoAndJohn · 28/08/2020 19:17

Kids always used to play out without this sort of bad behaviour.

Kids in my street/estate still do.
I live on a working class/middle class estate kids play out all day long without a problem. The town is one that if it is ever mentioned on here is referred to as a shit hole and a dump.

Malaya · 28/08/2020 19:18

@Carpathian2

I haven't been directly called a cunt, but a house I visited ( for work) recently had a 5 year old with his own phone. He picked it up and said "what cunt is texting me now?"

I nearly fell off the chair with shock, but the parents thought it was funny.

I despair 😩

One of the school mums I know thinks it hilarious when her 5 year old swears. He told another child to ‘shut the fuck up’ and called another child ‘wanker‘. Apparently, it’s just kids being kids, according to her 🙄
itsgettingweird · 28/08/2020 19:19

In local shop today just grabbing milk and bread etc.

Excellent system with electronic thjng on door to limit numbers.

2 spaces left.

In walk 5 teens with scooters bold as brass and no masks. No social distancing and just walking up all aisles and talking to each over right across the shop. and as I'm paying one came and stood right next to me. Arm touching.

I mean who does that anyway let alone right now?

Manager there who I know well as lived by this shop for over 10 years.

Told me that they can't say anything because when they tried the kids start coughing into thin air really loudly and laughing and it's even more dangerous.

I feel sorry for their teachers next week when they go back to school.

Malaya · 28/08/2020 19:33

@itsgettingweird

In local shop today just grabbing milk and bread etc.

Excellent system with electronic thjng on door to limit numbers.

2 spaces left.

In walk 5 teens with scooters bold as brass and no masks. No social distancing and just walking up all aisles and talking to each over right across the shop. and as I'm paying one came and stood right next to me. Arm touching.

I mean who does that anyway let alone right now?

Manager there who I know well as lived by this shop for over 10 years.

Told me that they can't say anything because when they tried the kids start coughing into thin air really loudly and laughing and it's even more dangerous.

I feel sorry for their teachers next week when they go back to school.

That’s awful and in that case, they should be barred from the shop. Dh works in retail and he’s had to ban certain kids from coming in as they were refusing to wear masks and coughing and spitting on people.
SecretWitch · 28/08/2020 19:35

Doing a home visit as a social worker. I saw the youngest child (age 4) take off his diaper and have a good old poo behind the sofa. I reported the activity to his mum. Little boy shouted “ I did not go potty behind the sofa you fucking cunt”. His mother just hooted with amusement.

I would be mortified if my 12 yr old behaved like an anti social beast in the park.

wildcherries · 28/08/2020 19:36

@DollyScrobbler

I walking through my school nursery on my way to the book storage and a little boy kicked the loo door open and shouted 'Oi, you gunna wipe mi bastard arse?' He was three and a half.

I despair Angry

My jaw just dropped. This is a frightening thread to read.
WhatamessIgotinto · 28/08/2020 19:37

Why did you feel sorry for them?

@Thisismytimetoshine. Because they were nice people who genuinely didn't think that their child would ever behave in such a way. They were blindsided by her behaviour.

Serin · 28/08/2020 19:38

Its not the youngsters round here that are the problem, it's the elderly.
I was called a fucking useless cunt by a lady in her 90s recently and my 19year old DS was mowed down by an old dear on a mobility scooter, speeding down a pedestrianised street. As he lay on the floor she called him a stupid wanker.

itsgettingweird · 28/08/2020 19:38

I've remembered one from a few years ago.

I work in education and behaviour management.

We had a complex child. Never spoke other than to insult staff.

Had a stick one day and was about to hit a child in a wheelchair with it.

I stood in front of child and asked another staff member to move her.

Ask him to put stick down please.

Oh my word he replied with "no you fucking cunt. You're a fucking fat bitch cunt"

Taken a back all I could reply was "well yes I am but that's not what we are talking about - now back to the stick"

Clearly shocked him too because he stood bewildered enough for me to remove it from his hand 🤣

Gancanny · 28/08/2020 19:38

It's not new, so don't pretend it is. My DB learnt the F word on his first day at school, in 1980, in a "naice" area. He and his mates were a right bunch of little sh1ts.

My brother once used a stone to chalk the word "fuk" onto the pavement while we all stood watching and giggling into our hands because it was a swear word. A life of delinquency beckoned.

I remember all of used swear words when we were together with our friends because it made us feel grown up, we didn't say them in front of adults and would have been mortified to have been caught but there were certainly kids back then who did say them in from of adults. My uncle once told a kid outside the chip shop to stop spitting and the kid told him to fuck off. That would have been early 90s I guess.

Kids have always worked themselves and have always done things they shouldn't, you just notice it more once you're no longer a kid yourself.

I don't feel so terrible that my 4 year old says "fuck" once in a blue moon

I feel like my three year old is behind the curve Grin She did overhear me swear a few months ago when I accidentally chopped into my finger instead of a vegetable and solemnly informed me "mammy, you say-ed a fuck".

itsgettingweird · 28/08/2020 19:41

@Candyflosscookie

Middle class is no guarantee of good behaviour. Mid teen Kid on my street, to read his mother's Facebook the sun shines out of his arse. Every birthday, Christmas, holiday, every time he farts she's waxing lyrically about what a decent, kind, caring, thoughtful young man he is. Truth is that he and his chums roam the village, being quite aggressive on their bikes, loudly discussing girls and using cunt/whore/gag the bitch etc liberally, try to nick stuff from the Coop, dodging traffic and generally being utter pains in the arse. She hasn't a clue.
Get a few people on board to film him in the act and add a comment with film "yeah- I'd be dead proud if he was my son too 🤔"
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