You know the more cars get smart features like distance control and speed control and so on, the less congestion we will see on the roads?
We have just got an SUV but not for the status - we couldn't give a shit about status! It's big and roomy which is what we explicitly went for. It parks itself, so no worries there. We looked at estate cars as well for the space but this was the one we happened to get a deal we could afford on. I don't have a preference on height, although have noticed that it's at exactly the right height now for getting wriggly toddler into spinning car seat, whereas the old one was a bit low down and you had to stoop and try not to whack their head on the roof.
We tend to use our car to travel rather than flying, as we live in mainland Europe, whereas if we had a smaller car, although we could and did drive long distances in it (we used to have a Suzuki Swift) we would have been more likely to fly for comfort and being able to take more luggage. So if you're talking carbon emissions - yes the car probably did cause more emissions being made, but for our family personally it has probably cut ours over time.
As soon as we mentioned family/child seats the salesperson started steering us towards SUVs. Of course it could be that they just wanted to make the sale and are pushing SUVs, but it does seem like it's been designed more to appeal to families than for proper off-roading, it's not even really 4wd.