Have you ever used a male escort?

[PurpleMackington]

Just curious really!

I spent last night with a male escort. Not actually as a client but 'personal'. We connected on a dating app and he was very open about what he does, and since neither of us are looking for anything serious, I thought that as long as we were safe I would still like to see him

Ended up having without a doubt the most incredible night of my life, and when I was telling a friend about it this morning and she jokingly asked if he was with his rates, I honestly said I would pay double (even if I was getting about £500 worth of his 'services' free ).

It got me thinking, there is obviously a market for this out there and obviously discretion is key so whilst I probably think I don't know anyone who has used a male escort, there must be women I know who have. So I wondered I would ask the sophisticated ladies of mumsnet to see what their experiences have been?!

i think its a bullshit story he has spun you in a weird attempt to try and let you know he was a skilled lover etc. I honestly do not believe that women pay £200 to fuck a man. If on the off chance it happens occasionally it must be vanishingly rare.
Chances are, if he actually is a male prostitute then he fucks men because thats the main market. The sex industry is 99% aimed at and for men, that goes for both porn and prostitution.

Ugh no...just imagine where it’s been...

Would you be cool with him having sex with your friends/sisters?

They might get mates rates after al! If you’re ok with any potential overlap then 🤷🏻‍♀️

We'll be the judge of that, OP. Link? grin

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It’s Not for me. I imagine that all sex workers ‘switch off’ while they’re having sex
So even if it was just a fun night night I’d be worried that he wasn’t really ‘there’
And that I could have been anyone and it wasn’t special for him
Seems a bit sordid - sorry
However you do what ever you like as long as youre safe

I booked someone for a couple of hours through AW. I was recently single, sick of having shit sex with selfish men and not having my needs met. So I decided to have a look for a professional so to speak.

He was a working porn star, I watched some of his videos before messaging him. Agreed a date, time and price then exchanged numbers.

He was friendly, flirty and a bit thick tbh. He asked me for a photo and seemed shocked I was a young, attractive-ish woman in my early 20s.

I ended up texting him after a night out and he invited me round to his place, we actually didn’t DTD that night, but got on well as mates and had a laugh.

We ended up in a weird relationship of sorts after that. I met his family, he met mine.
He was also renting out rooms in his house for female escorts to work out of, I met a few of them, saw how they spoke to customers on the phone etc, got off their faces in between clients. One of them actually stole a few K from him.He denied sleeping with male clients to me although I’m not sure about that now.

Where he mainly made his escort money was through cuckolding, where a bloke would send him a message and say “will you come and shag my Mrs while I watch” sort of thing.

The sex was good, but he was a very messed up man from his life choices.

Not sure if I regret it, it certainly opened my eyes to a lot of things. No money ever changed hands in the end.

[quote PurpleMackington]@TheLegendOfZelda I wasnt going to admit it so publically but yeah, I found him on Fab. The verifications make it so much safer than random hook ups![/quote]
Oh that makes sense
There are a fair few escorts, both sexes, on there in their free time

Yes any woman can hop onto Tinder and have a dozen men willing to have sex with them within hours. But every week there is at least one thread on here from a woman who has had an awful tinder experience where a man has been aggressive, pushed her into sex acts she hasn’t wanted to do, and treated her like a piece of meat. You’re deluded if you think you’re going to get a respectful and satisfying sexual encounter from a random on tinder.

I can definitely see the appeal of hiring a professional. If I was single, horny and had the cash to spare, I may consider it.

@ClickandForget

I might be naive but don't a significant number of female clients hire a male "escort" for exactly that. An escort to an event etc so she doesn't have to turn up alone? And a human base to return to in a room full of strangers? I know a woman who does this. She's quite a high earner and has to attend various functions associated with her job. The escort does nothing else except attend the function. They arrive together but go home seperately.

Shame a woman doesn't feel she can go alone to such events rather than with a stranger.

@Ginfordinner
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I very nearly mentioned the G word

Many years ago on another message board I used to post on there was a woman who paid for sex. She was in her 60s, she didn’t fancy men her own age and didn’t want a relationship. She saw nothing wrong with paying for sex with young fit men.

I do agree that it might be nice, if you could know you would be safe. That would be the main factor for me - if I was single, I would be too afraid to meet a man casually even if I wanted to.

@SerenDippitty

Many years ago on another message board I used to post on there was a woman who paid for sex. She was in her 60s, she didn’t fancy men her own age and didn’t want a relationship. She saw nothing wrong with paying for sex with young fit men.

I suppose this is also the sleazy holiday thing as well ... is it Ghana that is renowned for older women with young waiters?

Honestly though, a 60 year old woman would be really popular with young young men on a free online sex meet up site. Does it come down to the old adage about 'you pay them to leave afterwards'?

An old post and while I agree in part I think this may miss the point for some people. Yes most women can have sex easily, but good sex, that is safe, on their terms, that leave them feeling good? Thats a whole different thing. As for erections, viagra can take care of that if needed, but it's not all about (penetrative) sex for some, in fact some specifically don't want that and why they seek out 'professionals' whether called escorts or something else. No judgement from me whether someone does or doesn't, do what works for you :)

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Hello I'm intrigued to know if anyone has used a male escort?