I’m not having the greatest time at the moment. Tough pregnancy, elderly and difficult relative with cancer. I’m not in the best of moods.
Ds turns 18 in September. He had one more year of college to go but found last year tough. He was pushed into a course he didn’t want to do but there wasn’t much else choice wise, he was miserable.
He’s decided to work for a year or two. Luckily the company that Dh works for had some data entry positions, Ds applied and got one. So now he’ll have some breathing space to figure out what he wants to do, Maybe return to education next year. It’s thinking time anyway.
He told his dad, my ex h. We split when Ds was 6, he’s hated me ever since. Uses every opportunity to be snarky and to try and get one over on me. I’m usually very good at giving no reaction.
He does pay maintenance but it’s nothing like what he should be paying given his wage - he tells me tales of woe but he’s very high up in a large company, always has been since we were together and a quick google tells you his job title, so I don’t know why he feels the need to lie (aside from money) But you know what, he’s made my life miserable enough over the years that I’ve let it Go.
Received this text this morning “seeing a Ds has decided to forgo his education the money I paid you last week will be the last payment you will get as he’s no longer in full time education. Good luck supporting your own child from now on”
For fucks sake. He’s been such a twat over the years.
I’m not replying.
I would like to reply with “oh, shut up you cunt” but I won’t.