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Legal eagles needed urgently

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olympicsrock · 20/07/2020 22:48

I need help urgently mumsnet . I’ve just found out that my best friend has been catfished and have found evidence that he is a convicted fraudster on a local news archive site.
How can I search his criminal record? He has been in her house and could have stolen defrauded her.

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PawPawNoodle · 20/07/2020 22:53

By hacking the police national computer, of course.

FourPlasticRings · 20/07/2020 22:58

Tell her to get a credit check done. And change passwords. And get a good antivirus software to do a sweep of all her tech for bugs.

olympicsrock · 20/07/2020 23:07

He gave her a new I pad . Could that be Infected somehow??

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FourPlasticRings · 20/07/2020 23:09

Doubtful. iPads are generally considered to be resistant to viruses. If in doubt though, she should get it checked out.

motherofdxughters · 20/07/2020 23:10

You can't search his criminal record unless there are public reports.

Hard reset the iPad back to factory settings.

Ask her to get a copy of her credit report on paper from the three big credit agencies to look for recent abnormalities.

motherofdxughters · 20/07/2020 23:10

You can't search his criminal record unless there are public reports.

Hard reset the iPad back to factory settings.

Ask her to get a copy of her credit report on paper from the three big credit agencies to look for recent abnormalities.

motherofdxughters · 20/07/2020 23:10

You can't search his criminal record unless there are public reports.

Hard reset the iPad back to factory settings.

Ask her to get a copy of her credit report on paper from the three big credit agencies to look for recent abnormalities.

olympicsrock · 20/07/2020 23:52

God . I know which magistrates court he was found guilty at . Can I search records somehow??

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saltycat · 20/07/2020 23:56

Get friend to report to the Police.

Mnet will just in general follow the thread and wonder what will happen.

Sorry now.

PennyRoyal · 20/07/2020 23:58

What exactly are you trying to discover?

If he had appeared in court and there are news reports, they will give you her charges and the outcomes.

Your friend needs to check online banking, change all passwords and cancel credit cards (get new ones issued).

Is your friend aware of what you've found out?

olympicsrock · 21/07/2020 00:03

Yes she knows. The local news report is 15 years old and said he had multiple previous convictions.
She will do a credit check etc but I thought it might be helpful to know what she is dealing with.

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olympicsrock · 21/07/2020 00:04

Changing all passwords is pretty stressful. I think calling police tomorrow is a good idea

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pennysea · 21/07/2020 00:13

I hope your friend is ok? Is she sure she has catfished? If the conviction is 15 years ago and your friend hasn't provided him with money or bank details, he might not have had any intention of defrauding her.

She should check for any missing documents and get her credit report and keep an eye on it for a while. Also talk to the police.

olympicsrock · 21/07/2020 07:29

Thanks PennySea. He has told her lots of lies - maybe he’s just a fantastist, that would be best case scenario . At the moment she is not aware of any theft from her which is good. She never gave him money either. Only things were a very expensive takeaway where his card was rejected and he nicked a couple of bottles of wine as he was leaving .

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