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Miscarriage and heartache

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Daxie2513 · 11/07/2020 10:05

Hi, I am new to this and doing my first thread.
Just looking for a bit of support that's not family or friends.

So I've just been through a miscarriage (was an unplanned pregnancy) a week ago and 5 days after my boyfriend ended things with me. We had been together for almost 9 months. He was not there for me at all while the miscarriage happened I didn't even get any calls off him asking if I was OK or if I needed anything. I had to go through it at home on my own with my 7 year old daughter also at home so I had to be as normal as I could be for her. Even when I told him he was being uncaring and didn't check in on me he didn't have much to say. I feel like our whole relationship has been about him as he has alot of baggage with his ex and daughter but when I needed him he didn't give me anything support back. He's 40 BTW so not a kid (I'm 36) I've also been through 3 miscarriages in the past 10 years ago so it was even more upsetting to think I've had a Forth now.
He didn't ended it through a text message, just saying he doesn't know what he wants and needs to be on his own to figure it out.
I'm just feeling all over the place atm.

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