I can't believe it! Why do men who abandoned the 1st borns, then go on to have second families where they pretend they are dad of the year.
I never stopped but did have a protection order in place as he became abusive.
He never held our daughter when she she was, posted anything on social media and left at 6 months after he attacked me again and the police got involved
He then said he never wanted kids in the first place and it's my fault she won't have a dad because I wouldn't take him back and it was my fault he got mad the last time for rejecting him.
While I appreciate we're are better off without him. It winds me up, that he now has a new baby and is acting like he is father of the year. I only checked fb to see if he was working as cms payments have been reduced.
The gf also knows about our DC too as I told her, and then blocked her leaving them to it. Just so she was aware.
It just seems unfair that my ex of 5 years put me and dd through hell for 2 years and now gets to move on have a second family 3 years later and appears to be overjoyed, despite abandoning his 1st child in the first place and never wanting kids.
I just don't get it!