Anyone think its just too much hassle??

[MalamuteLover]

Online dating. God it's so odd!!! I've tried different sites and the same men are on the sites. They obviously are hedging their bets and putting themselves on 5 or more sites! Yuk.

But you are doing the same?

I know people who have found good relationships through OLD and others who haven't got on with it at all.

No NickNacky. I've left one site as its crap then a few weeks later joined another. I've heard of numerous people who go on 5 sites at a time.

I don’t see what they are doing wrong? They are just casting their net wider.

Just feels a bit weird Nicknacky
Or you get the ones who talk to you for a few days all good then disappear

It's just dire.

I've also been on Tinder/Bumble so long that you see the same faces over and over again.

So depressing. I hate it.

I also hate when smug coupled up people want to know about all the failures. Please, rub your relationship in my face some more!

You know I've never really enjoyed being in a relationship so I've decided to stop bothering.

But I do want another child but obviously I'd want to be in a happy relationship for that to happen

How is going to more than 1 dating site any different from someone going into more than 1 bar to look for a date?

The paid for sites are much better. I joined The Guardian dating site and met my now dh.

Apparently guardian dating have closed