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Your favourite novels about grinding hardship

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JesusInTheCabbageVan · 14/06/2020 20:19

Apparently these really cheer me up. I'm not talking about misery/abuse memoirs, but things like the following:

Cold Mountain, Charles Frazer
The Good Earth, Pearl S Buck
Gap Creek, Robert Morgan
Night Waking, Sarah Moss.

Do you know what I mean? Books that make you think, 'I'm so glad I don't have to work that hard. I'm sure I'll remember more in a bit.

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cremuel · 19/06/2020 08:01

The Making of a Marchioness by Frances Hodgeson Burnett doesn’t really fit the bill as it’s got a happy (and quite cheesy and implausible) ending, but it’s a great depiction of genteel poverty and how incredibly vulnerable women on their own were - trying to find respectable work and aware that any bout of illness could lead to homelessness and penury, and no plan for how they would survive when they get old.

slavetothenhs · 19/06/2020 08:05

The Road, Cormac McCarthy - pure grimness.

francienolan · 19/06/2020 12:35

A Tree Grows in Brooklyn (my favourite book)

The Year of the Runaways

Americanah

Small Island

The Neapolitan novels by Elena Ferrante

Any book by Willa Cather

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mstrotwood · 19/06/2020 12:52

Independent People by Halldor Laxness

MercedesDeMonteChristo · 19/06/2020 12:53

All of Zola and all of Catherine Cookson.

MikeEhrmantraut · 19/06/2020 12:59

The woman who walked into doors, Roddy Doyle

MercedesDeMonteChristo · 19/06/2020 13:00

Reading this thread I realise I definitely have a ‘type’ when it comes to reading and this thread is everything!

Also remembered Elif Shafak, Honour.

SecretWitch · 19/06/2020 13:06

@Latenightreader

I came here to recommend A Tree Grows in Brooklyn by Betty Smith, and if you can find Joy in the Morning by her it is also lovely.
I was coming on to recommend “A Tree Grows in Brooklyn”!

I read it yearly along with JITM.

Betty Smith has two other books I’m planning to read.

I watched the 1941 movie version of ATGIB yesterday on YouTube.

Clawdy · 19/06/2020 14:08

I first read A Tree Grows In Brooklyn when I was a teenager and loved it. Last year our book group read it, and it was amazing to read it again after so many years. I still loved it, and found myself sympathising a bit more with Francie's mum this time!

Lucked · 19/06/2020 14:29

Small Island is this weeks National Theatre free on line production.

CarlottaValdez · 19/06/2020 14:44

I’m unreasonably annoyed that I can’t get a tree grows in Brooklyn for kindle!

SecretWitch · 19/06/2020 16:38

@CarlottaValdez, dang! I have it on my kindle but I am in the US ..

StarShapedWindow · 19/06/2020 16:43

With regards to Helen Forrester, her poor ears! I still wince when I think of her poor ears and how cold she was. Her parents were utterly disgraceful.

oldperson1 · 19/06/2020 16:45

Wild Swans by Jung Chan

SpringSpringTime · 19/06/2020 16:55

@mstrotwood

Independent People by Halldor Laxness
Good shout! Just sitting in the dark eating refuse fish waiting for spring....don’t get much more miserable than that.

Life and Times of Michael K, Coetzee
The Notebook, Agota Kristof
Voices From Chernobyl, Svetlana Alexeivitch

AuntieDolly · 19/06/2020 17:08

Neil Gun "The Silver Darlings"

Clawdy · 19/06/2020 17:28

Weren't Helen Forrester's parents originally from a very wealthy family who ended up living in dire poverty? Can't remember why, a huge family row or something? Then they were completely hopeless and unable to cope at all ?

Wbeezer · 19/06/2020 19:59

Ooh, I forgot about The Silver Darlings, havent read it for years but it was a favourite when I was young. I think theres a special quality to Scottish misery, its the added Prebyterianism.

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 19/06/2020 20:02

Her father went bankrupt IIRC Clawdy

I'd like to add The Personal History Of Rachel Dupree as an unrelenting hardship story.

MacavityTheDentistsCat · 19/06/2020 20:10

A Kestrel for a Knave

IFancyMrOnions · 21/06/2020 13:56

I've been reading the Helen Forrester book absolutely non stop since the recommendations on this thread and have now started the second.

What a fascinating life she led after such hardship. I would love to know what happened to her siblings since, but there doesn't appear to be any information out there

IFancyMrOnions · 21/06/2020 13:56

Also, her parents were appalling

SheWranglesRugRats · 21/06/2020 18:15

A real life exposé, Nickel and dimed by Barbara Ehrenreich and a similar book by Florence Aubenas (can’t remember the name) about struggling with dead end minimum wage jobs.

SheWranglesRugRats · 21/06/2020 18:19

It’s called The Night Cleaner.

JamieFraserskiltspeaksout · 21/06/2020 19:24

Hidden lives by Margaret Forster. It's semi autobiographical and depicts the lives of women in her family throughout the generations. Back breaking hardship and work. One of my absolute favourites. Give it a go - you won't be disappointed!

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