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Your favourite novels about grinding hardship

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JesusInTheCabbageVan · 14/06/2020 20:19

Apparently these really cheer me up. I'm not talking about misery/abuse memoirs, but things like the following:

Cold Mountain, Charles Frazer
The Good Earth, Pearl S Buck
Gap Creek, Robert Morgan
Night Waking, Sarah Moss.

Do you know what I mean? Books that make you think, 'I'm so glad I don't have to work that hard. I'm sure I'll remember more in a bit.

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PepeLePew · 14/06/2020 21:39

King of the Barbareens by Janet Hitchman (may be out of print) - autobiographical account of a childhood in care between the wars.

Hangover Square by Patrick Hamilton. Misery and alcohol in Earls Court as war looms.

A Fine Balance broke me. Utterly devastating.

MrsMop1964 · 14/06/2020 21:41

Grapes of Wrath
I can't imagine it cheering anyone up but I've never forgotten reading it.

WellThankyouAJPTaylor · 14/06/2020 21:41

@JesusInTheCabbageVan

Ooh, Zola. But it's the 13th of a 20 novel series - you trying to help me or kill me??

Helen Forrester was my very first inkling that I like these kind of books. I wanted to kill her mum though, what an evil cow.

They're loosely linked, I think, rather than being a series as such

I read Therese Raquin yrs ago as a student, enjoyed it but rather embarrassingly can't remember ANYTHING about it Blush

Recently read L'assommoir, which was great and would fit your brief

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dementedma · 14/06/2020 21:42

Second “Germinal” by Zola and also “L’ assommoir” by the same author.
Amazing books.

JesusInTheCabbageVan · 14/06/2020 21:42

@speakout Hmm so did a lot of people. Probably a few of the ones posting on here. If you care to do an Advanced Search on me, you'll find I've posted very little (if anything) about my childhood. There's a reason for that. I can assure you it wasn't 'glamorous' either.

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AnneKipanki · 14/06/2020 21:45

Elmet , Fiona Mozley

mammmamia · 14/06/2020 21:45

@PepeLePew me too. Read it years ago and even now it keeps me awake at night.

Etinox · 14/06/2020 21:47

yy to blummin’ marvelous Zola.
Also A Tree Grows in Brooklyn, Betty Smith
The Secret River, Kate Grenville

redastherose · 14/06/2020 21:49

Tuppence to Cross the Mersey

mammmamia · 14/06/2020 21:53

@WellThankyouAJPTaylor I loved Zola, have you read La Bête Humaine?

Thecazelets · 14/06/2020 21:53

Was coming on to say Helen Forrester, but see I've been beaten to it many times! Still think about those books now and I must have read them 30 years ago.

mammmamia · 14/06/2020 21:54

@Etinox ah another Zola fan!

Esca · 14/06/2020 21:54

The Women's Room by Marilyn French.

My husband of the time used to call it 'the divorce book' because I'd get all indignant and uppity every time I read it. (I read it a lot.) The grind was SO real, though.

He's now my ex. Smile

@Phial 100% Agree re: One Day in the Life of Ivan Denisovich

MarshaBradyo · 14/06/2020 21:55

We did Zola and Solzhenitsyn at school, we were boarders and the latter felt apt

This isn’t grinding because it is so balanced as usual but I just finished The Pied Piper set in WW2. So very, very good. My favourite author Nevil Shute.

JudasHisCarrot · 14/06/2020 21:56

God, yes to A Book of Negroes. I read it years ago and it has stayed with me

Pyjamasarethenewblack · 14/06/2020 22:01

Roots by Alex Haley
The Endless Steppe by Esther Hautzig

Lucked · 14/06/2020 22:03

I second One Day In The Life of Ivan Denisovich it is amazing and has always stayed with me.

MollyWindley · 14/06/2020 22:04

@Pyjamasarethenewblack was just about to recommend The Endless Steppe and see you have just done so ~ I read it many years ago as a child but have never forgotten it.

Pyjamasarethenewblack · 14/06/2020 22:22

MollyWindley I read it at school about 1986/7 and have also never forgotten it!

TheWindowDonkey · 14/06/2020 22:29

How Green Was My Valley, by Richard Llewellyn. Beautiful account of growing up in the welsh valleys as miners began to know real hardship.

Dowser · 14/06/2020 22:39

Catherine’s Cookson..our kate

confusedofengland · 14/06/2020 22:51

Definitely Angela's Ashes.

Also, I'm currently reading The Color Purple which involves lots of hard times & also makes me very thankful for what I have. Very relevant to current affairs, I think.

Books such as The Tattooist of Auschwitz and The Book Thief also make me very grateful for the life I was fortunate enough to be born into, but I don't know if these are the kind of thing you are after.

SignOnTheWindow · 14/06/2020 22:55

The Grapes of Wrath is probably the bleakest thing I've ever read. Incredible, though.

Rainallnight · 14/06/2020 23:08

I came on to recommend A Fine Balance, but someone beat me to it! So, so miserable.

MissSmiley · 14/06/2020 23:36

I'm loving the recommendations
Mine isn't a book but the Ken Loach movie "Sorry we missed you" is a modern day story of grim reality for many people in this country