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Your favourite novels about grinding hardship

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JesusInTheCabbageVan · 14/06/2020 20:19

Apparently these really cheer me up. I'm not talking about misery/abuse memoirs, but things like the following:

Cold Mountain, Charles Frazer
The Good Earth, Pearl S Buck
Gap Creek, Robert Morgan
Night Waking, Sarah Moss.

Do you know what I mean? Books that make you think, 'I'm so glad I don't have to work that hard. I'm sure I'll remember more in a bit.

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PhilODox · 15/06/2020 12:47

I did like Night Waking, in fact I've loved Sarah Moss' other books too, but I remember thinking at the time "FGS, my life is harder than yours love" Grin
It was a particularly rough period for me, but still...
And the name Moth just grated on me, intensely Blush
Very good book though.

SebandAlice · 15/06/2020 12:48

A Thousand Splendid Suns.

Pelleas · 15/06/2020 12:48

Another vote for Love on the Dole (Walter Greenwood)

Not a novel, but Orwell's The Road to Wigan Pier is a good 'hardship' read and in my view, as readable as any novel.

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PhilODox · 15/06/2020 12:50

Another book in the same vein as Night Waking is Weathering by Lucy Wood.
Her other book Diving Belles is good too.

CoffeeDay · 15/06/2020 12:52

Out and Grotesque by Natsuo Kirino
Both are officially crime thrillers but are set in a haunting atmosphere of everyday hardship. Out features 4 women trying to make ends meet working in a boxed lunch factory, each with different problems. Grotesque has a section on a Chinese immigrant attempting to create a new life in Japan and a final chapter on a troubled young woman working as a prostitute in Tokyo. Very graphic and disturbing at times but never gratuitous like those misery/pain memoirs. Everything is relevant to the plot and the books leave you pensive long after you've finished them.

A PP mentioned Long Road Home by Rose Tremain, also enjoyed that a lot as it's so London-centric. Changes your perspective about the city and features characters that are caricatures of people you know. Brick Lane by Monica Ali is another favourite with similar themes.

Angelonia · 15/06/2020 12:53

Educated by Tara Westover

Angelonia · 15/06/2020 12:55

Also The Glass Castle by Jeanette Walls.

AuntieMarys · 15/06/2020 12:56

The Jungle is the most depressing book I have ever read. But one of my favourites

daisypond · 15/06/2020 13:01

Another vote for Germinal. Also L’Assommoir is brilliant - about a descent into alcoholism and poverty.

Giants In The Earth by Ole Rolvaag - for Laura Ingalls Wilder fans - is fascinating. A novel describing some of the same real events in her books - the locusts, blizzards, the sod houses - but from an adult Norwegian immigrant perspective.

Rua13 · 15/06/2020 13:06

Yy to Grapes of Wrath and A Fine Balance.I will never forget the ending of GOW even though I read it thirty years ago.
Strumpet City by James Plunkett is a novel set in Dublin in 1913 during the lockout (strike).

ThomasHardyPerennial · 15/06/2020 13:13

Ruth by Elizabeth Gaskell. I still think about it a lot, and I last read it years ago.

daisypond · 15/06/2020 13:15

The Nether World - by George Gissing.

Lardlizard · 15/06/2020 13:20

Place marking

newtb · 15/06/2020 15:06

Try Cricket (A tale of humble life) by Silas Hocking

It's set in the 19th century, was one of my great aunt's Sunday school prizes and I seem to remember needing a whole box of tissues I cried so much reading it.

Sgtmajormummy · 15/06/2020 15:22

Never Let Me Go by Kazuo Ishiguro (sp?).The film not so much. Outcast, brainwashed children doomed to a life of literal sacrifice.

And one I read at High School and am only starting to identify with now. Le Père Goriot by Balzac.

Sgtmajormummy · 15/06/2020 15:23

Good Night Mr.Tom, as a PP said, too.

AnneKipanki · 15/06/2020 19:38

Out is brilliant @CoffeeDay . Reread that recently 👍🏻

mammmamia · 15/06/2020 20:21

@Sgtmajormummy I read Le père goriot at university as well! Forgot about that one!

mammmamia · 15/06/2020 20:23

And yes to goodnight Mr Tom. Has anyone read the other evacuee one by the same author called Back Home? One of my all time favourite books.

seriousandloyal · 15/06/2020 20:27

@Etinox I agree Zola is a wonderful writer, so vivid. And a good man to speak out for Dreyfus.

Whingeingpom · 15/06/2020 20:32

As others have said, George Orwell did this so well. I immediately thought of "a Clergyman's Daughter". I read it years and years ago but I still think about it sometimes.
I'm late getting to this one, because I also thought of "The Five". Strongly recommended.

daisypond · 15/06/2020 20:36

Thought of another:
The Hiding Place by Trezza Azzopardi. Set in underworld gangster Cardiff in the ‘60s. This was shortlisted for the Booker Prize.

BalloonSlayer · 15/06/2020 21:41

I agree about Wild Swans. When I finished it I declared "I won't complain about anything ever again for the rest of my life!" It turned out I was wrong about that but I will never forget the awfulness.

Another one that has stayed with me was one of the Call the Midwife books. I forget which one. There was a lady who had been in the workhouse and who was irreparably damaged by it, and an old man who had gone terrible things in the Boer war and had a miserable old age. Absolutely harrowing.

itssquidstella · 15/06/2020 21:55

These Is My Words by Nancy Turner

isseywith4vampirecats · 15/06/2020 21:59

factual Into the abbys jack London
best fiction one the ragged trousered philanthropists tressle
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