Even after years together?
This is purely about physical attraction not personality.
Had this topic come up on my recent zoom chat with friends and after a few wines the majority of them said they don't fancy their husbands/boyfriends anymore after 5+ (or significantly more) years together. Putting it down to weight gain and/or general ageing but they made it all sound like it's completely normal and part of the parcel of a longterm relationship with DCs and work/general life. This was followed by a general moan about partners.
There was me and another friend who didn't say much throughout. It prompted me to pay attention to DP a bit more and yesterday for some reason I woke up stupidly early, I decided to stay in bed and turned and saw him next to me and just thought "crap he's gorgeous", I feel like in the day to day life with kids and work and all the other things to get on with it just gets taken for granted but when I just pause and really see him I remember how stupidly handsome he is (to me of course) and wonder how I landed him.
He doesn't look exactly like he did when we met he's put on a few pounds and is currently growing a bit of a beard which isn't my thing at all but it doesn't take away from the fact that he's tall, dark and handsome with broad shoulders, his stupidly long eyelashes which make me jealous, lovely deep voice and a cracking smile - just my personal type.
He's not Mr.Perfect and has plenty of annoying habits, he's a master at flooding the bathroom floor when showering and can never find an item that's under his nose even with detailed instructions which gives me the rage 
but purely from a physical perspective I do still fancy him.
So out of curiosity since I felt like the minority on the call I just wanted to put the question out there - do you still fancy your OH after years together?