I am breaking my rule of not posting as I agree with so much on this thread.
I am a 72 year old grandma to five children who, fortunately, all live close. I am incensed with the scare mongering going on and the inability of people to assess risk. There is an excellent article in the Daily Telegraph showing graphs of how this affects people in different ages, and comparing, for instance, the fact that there are 25,000 bad accidents in the UK every year, but we don't close down the roads.
I know a lot of even more elderly people and the general consensus seems to be that we don't want our children and grandchildren to suffer to save our lives. For me (and a lot of people, I suspect) the thought of being elderly, frail and badly incapacitated in a care home fills me with horror. I don't want to be kept alive with no quality of life just because I can be. I have had a great life, and I hope it does go on, but not at the expense of younger generations.
My friends and I have been following the rules because we don't want the NHS over run, not because we fear the virus.
Oh, and by the way, our Scottish posters will be interested to know that some of their compatriots have been ringing golf courses in Northumberland (where I live) and Cumbria, asking if they can come over the Border for a game.